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• My boyfriend and I bought a house with my parents. posted (5 years, 9 months) ago
  Now, I think it was a big mistake! We have lived at the house for 3 months, now we miss our privacy …

• I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3years, we have lived together for the past year. posted (5 years, 9 months) ago
  I pay for most of the bills and groceries. I cover his rent, because he does not have it sometimes. …

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• My boyfriend and I bought a house with my parents.
  

  My mother and I will both have to sell the house in a year or two, so my boyfriend
  can buy our own place. My mother will have to downsize, buy a smaller place or rent an apartment. My godmother was right..couples and inlaws should never live together!
  - written 5 years, 9 months ago

• My boyfriend and I bought a house with my parents.
  

  Thanks for the advice everyone. My boyfriend and I live in the basement of the house, but there is no door separating the basement (this is the layout of the house, its a 2 split level). My mom has helped me out incredibly over the past, so I thought it was my turn to give back. She wanted a better house than what she had before, but she couldn’t have done it without my help. My boyfiend’s finances isn’t the greatest to buy a house of our own, going in wth my mother seemed like a good idea a the time. I don’t think a year or two living at the house will be the end of the world for my boyfiend and I, we just have to be smart and use our time wisely there….to save for our downpayment for our own house. I live in Canada and the housing market is always booming..in a year or two we’ll definetly make some equity on the house…when we sell:)
  - written 5 years, 9 months ago

• My boyfriend and I bought a house with my parents.
  

  My mom will be disappointed if the we sell the house in a year. Our intial plan was
  to stay in the house for 5 years to build equity and then sell it. Our situation is
  ruining our family relationship…I am 30 years old shouldn’t be living with my parents. This was my mother’s idea to make more money, but it’s breaking up our family.
  - written 5 years, 9 months ago

• I am worried my body is not normal, I have been abusing laxatives for the last 5 years.
  

  Thanks for the advice everyone! I may take the big step and go see my doctor, I feel
  very embarassed, but I really want to get better. I feel like I have a sickness and
  it will never go away unless I do something now. I wish I never started taking laxatives, they definetly should not sold anywhere, only with a prescription. In highschool I just wanted to be thin and wanted a quick fix, now I’m paying for it terribly! Too all the young girls and women out there unsatisfied with their body,
  just be healthy and don’t abuse yourselves! I’ve learned the hard way, beauty comes from within!
  - written 5 years, 9 months ago

• my life is to much i have no one to talk to and i think
  

  Please talk to someone, a friend, a family member. I went through depression too
  in my early 20’s…remember its not just about you..you have family and friends around you that love you. You have your children that should mean the world to you!
  You may need medical help..please see a doctor. You are young and a beautiful person..can can give so much to your children..don’t give up!
  - written 5 years, 9 months ago

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