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• Fool
  

  Beautiful.
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

• I cheated in a small exam and i got caught.
  

  I am sure he did not report you. You’re right, you would definately have been informed by now. The guilty feelings have really stuck around for quite some time though, so you might feel better doing something like… writing him or her an anonymous letter about the fact that you were caught cheating by him a couple years ago, and thinking him for not turning you in… letting him know that you have felt bad ever since, and that his ability to give you a second chance was much appreciated. Teachers love to get stuff like this because they are rarely given the chance to hear the positive way that they might have influenced their students. And he or her did positively influence you because you have become more conscientious since then. (I’m sure you never cheat enymore!) The letter might help to release your guilt. Good luck!
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

• I was supposed to leave for school on the 24th.
  

  Oops, I just noticed you said he is 17. Old enough to get a job, but young enough I think to be called in as a run-away. So the later part of the post might apply best.
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

• I was supposed to leave for school on the 24th.
  

  It depends a little on how old he is… If he is old enough to be on his own (e.g., to get a job, etc), then he has probably made the right move. For whatever reason, his family is going through something that is getting in the way of being able to be there for him. It doesn’t mean that someday this might not change. But for now, he might be better off removing himself from a toxic situation. He might feel better if, after a few days, he writes his mom a letter to let her know that he cares for her, but that it seems a little distance is needed for now. She might not reply in the way that he would like. But at least then he knows that he did his part. If he is not old enough to be on his own, she can call the police and report him as a run-away. If that is likely to happen, he would be better off to let the police know about the situation. They may be able to get him and the family in touch with some resources to help them through this. Or, they might be able to facilitate an arangement where he lives with another family member or a friend for the time being. I hope this helps some… I’m sure it is hard for you to see your friend going through such a difficult time. But, know that he is better off because he has you as a good friend who cares.
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

• Trouble Falling Asleep
  

  It is amazing how much it can help when you get a lot of exercise… Ha, Isabellaboo just said the same thing, I just noticed. When ever I exercise, I sleep WAY better.
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

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