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• My husband and i were talking about future baby names when we realized we didn’t know what to do for a middle name for our future first born son. posted (8 months, 3 weeks) ago
  husband and i were talking about future baby names when we realized we didn’t know what to do…

• Hi, my problem isn’t really a problem, just something my boyfriend and i want to consider in our future. posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  we’ve been dating for a very long time and constantly talk about marriage. the only reason we&…

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• (2 votes) Do you ever catch yourself falling into unhealthy patterns?
  

  I know how you feel, when my husband and i first started dating everything was great. but as things went on i felt myself getting more and more sensative to things. I couldn’t figure out what was wrong, but that’s when i realized nothing was wrong, i loved him and wanted our relationship to work so bad every little thing that went wrong upset me. I wanted to be by him all the time and suddenly had all these expectations of what someone i loved should be like. when i finally sorted that all out i fixed it by telling him how i felt. He actually completely understood why i’d been acting the way i had and helped me to work through it. We realized that being in love meant we had to learn to accept that little things will go wrong, we’re not always going to be able to say the perfect thing at the right time, and we are going to have to spend time apart. it took time but after telling myself these things were ok my “unhealthy habits” as you call them settled down. Now we’re newly married and very happy :)
  
  - written 7 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by ~willard~, ƒ(x)=healberry³

• (1 vote) oi oiiiiii
  

  it works :)
  
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by okei!

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• hey I have kind of a long story, so I’ll try
  

  well then, you should have no problem fitting in with a new group of people, you just have to go out and find them!
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• hey I have kind of a long story, so I’ll try
  

  haha oh sorry, I didn’t mean to offend you. I really did understand what you meant :)
  
  Anyway, good luck
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• hey I have kind of a long story, so I’ll try
  

  [quote lucyinsnowcountr]ok, i have also been homeschooled my whole life, the easest thing to do, is just find something to get involved in, go join a sports team, something with a park or ymca, that way, you ca make friends, not just try to weasel your way into a group[/quote]
  
  I completely agree with this. there is no better way to make friends then by working towards a common interest. whether it’s a sports team, club, or even a job you will automatically have something to talk about and be able to see them on a regular basis.
  
  Also, don’t worry about not being talkative, being the quiet one in the group is definitely not the worst thing in the world. People with think your a good listener and want to talk to you about things, eventually this will help you figure out what to say back
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• I’m a fifteen year-old girl and my male, forty-six year-old PE teacher told me that he loved me.
  

  I’m a little confused with this whole thing. you say you don’t want to be with him and you understand that you can’t be together because it’s wrong, but you keep defending your relationship. I’m starting to think it doesn’t matter what we say to you because deep down you want to have a relationship with him and will most likely do so. Did you just write on here hoping someone would tell you to go ahead with it? If you really believe that you shouldn’t be with him you have to take the steps to cut off all ties with him and see why his is wrong. If you don’t believe that then what we say here makes absolutely no difference.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• I’m a fifteen year-old girl and my male, forty-six year-old PE teacher told me that he loved me.
  

  obviously you like him as a teacher and he likes you as a student. that’s why this all started. Unfortunately, in order for it to be safe for both of you, you should do your best to cut the strings between you two. if you stay in his class to be with him but try not to be too close to him things will just get complicated.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

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