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I think I’ll go to bed now actually. Thanks *kten* for all of your comments :)

Yer totally right about the bottle of wine…

Yes he has actually. A few times

TXT him a minute a go BTW that he was “being boring”…I will probably regret that tomorrow. Just for telling him the truth! haha! Ah…well…

thanks for taking the time to talk to me BTW. Yer sweet :)

I know he is…that’s the problem…Do I still keep on seeing him, because he makes me feel so good on these rare occasions…you know? I fear commitment aswell but this is the first time I’ve ever met a man that fears it more than I do.

no he’s not now in a relationship.

He doesn’t want to talk about his previous relationships. All I get is: “I wouldn’t wish it upon any man to be with her. I mean really” This is the mother of his children he’s talking about. — I still have read a bit between the lines and it seems like she liked to be in control…he doesn’t like being controled. I’m pretty sure this is the basis of his frustration towards women.

I usually keep it together but tonight I really feel like ****

oh…god…i feel like ****

The feeling is there…I can’t control it so it contols me I guess…But this makes it so exciting..total lack of control. Cause usually I don’t allow myself to lose contol…to enjoy..

He works with a friend of mine. Sat down with us in a cafe one day when we were sitting the two of us. Instantly there was chemistry between us.

Are you being sarcastic? If not: do you believe that the only way to find true happiness is through religion? If so: That’s a very narrow minded perspective, I must say.

What works for me is just to do something totally different…change my routine and not think about creating at all…just not think about it for a few days and do extremely non creative yet fun things — like others do…go swimming or take a walk (feed the ducks) or just have loads of sex …or eat discusting food…anything to take my mind off the creative process…you know…like normal people do. lol.

Works for me but dunno if it’d work fer you.

Leave him. I grew up with an alchoholic father and believe me…you’d be doing all of you a favour by leaving him. Alchoholism is just that kind of didease: he wont stop if he can get away with drinking. If you always stick around he’ll just keep drinking…that does not give a posotive message to your daughter and it’s a waste of you life

If everything was easy life wouldn’t be worth living it. Overcoming obstacles is a part of being alive. The way you live your life is your choice, nobody elses. Take control of it. It’s all about choices.

And even though you might not want to face it: nobody is born with everything…everybody’s miserable from time to time, otherwise they would not be alive, they wouldn’t be human.

You might aswell be asking “why am I human”?

The thing is that I’ve actually met people that are against anime. Freaks me out.

just looked at the link…lol

twas a valid point though