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yes i’m bi….or atleast i think i am….
but i’m begining to wonder if i’m gay.
-_-
and that’s not good if i am.

well talk to me.
we can get to know each other before you tell me anything,
but yesh….
if your willing to talk to me im here and you can always ask for my email.

thanks.
thats really what i needed to hear.

you know the same is with me most of the time.
if you read some of my old posts you’ll under what boat i’ve been in.
all i can say for you is i’m here if u need me ok?
anything at all.

explain more about whats happening.

this is going to be hard…
but yeah.
i’ll TRY to get ovser them…

has happened to me before…
there really isn’t anything u can do….

just plain out ask her “ok. hun. i have a question…do you love me? and just don’t say yes cause you feel like you have to…do you truely LOVE me, like whould you’d do anything for me. at all.”
and see how it goes from there.
and if she gets mad about you asking that…..don’t think what you did was wrong.
ok?
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it sounds like to me…
that you 2 aren’t going to work out.
sorry to be the one to say this….
but it don’t seem like she loves you like you love her.
and when that happens…..
you can only let her go…..
it’s best for you.

yes.
most places keep it private.
just make sure she tells that she wants it to be private and they won’t tell.
it’s that simple.
like, a public health center or something like that.

don’t thinnk it’s your fault.
cause it’s not.
it’s hers.
and she knows it.
there is nothing wrong with getting tested and if she wants to be like that it’s her that has a problem.
you know why she might not want to get tested?
cause shes afraid that she has it.
and that is very freaking shelfish of her to do that.
if you love her, like you say you do, talk to her…..explain that even if she has it you will still love her no matter what. don’t let her get by without taking the test.
it’s best for both of you to know.
and if she still refuses…maybe you should really look at the love you guys share.

ok.
for me, it would be better to never love a person.
cause if you never have felt that love you won’t know what your missing out on…and if you can never get the person you love…if you really do love them…..there will never be anyone to fill their place.
but.
thats just me talking.

thats happened to me.
tell him how you feel…
if you lose him…you just lose him.
but it’s better to tell him then to keep it inside cause he might like you to.
and you can’t pass that up.

aww.
thats cute.

same here!
it sucks so bad i could never see myself doing the things im doing.
im young.
i’ll say that.
but yet…
im drinking, cutting….i can’t even bre to look at myself…