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thanks, not many ppl understand at all

I recall one person who did get through it writing poetry. Takes time, for sure. You’ll get through, but I understand the itch.

thanks, its ok.. i know he loved me and everytime i try get depressed i write poerty, but…idk how long it will work

Yeah, that’ll do it. A lot of important connections severed, your support system crippled. Try to establish some new connections and find creative outlets.

That was an awful lot all at once, and I’m sorry for that.

yea, i feel so lost with out him and i thought i had my friend walter there with me…but, he dies shortly after my dAD, i have no one anymore so that is when i started to cut

thanks,

Ah! Soo many choices.

Hrm… My thoughts.

You don’t have marriage or family plans right now, it seems — maybe just an idea of what you want for the future but not ready to settle.

What helps put perspective on your feelings Al.

Honey, it’s not normal to wait for 5 hours like that. It’s obsessive, and I think he would marvelously good and attentive in the beginning, but within 3 months you’d see he was jealous, controlling and easily angered if he felt you weren’t giving him enough attention.

I’m not saying “don’t”, just to keep an eye out for that behavior.

Geno is not giving you enough attention to make you feel secure, but be realistic about how he’s spending his time. A healthy person takes care of needs and goals, spends time with friends and family, and makes time for themselves. If he’s ignoring you for days at a time, that may be a concern. Have you talked about it with him?

I haven’t heard about Mike and how he behaves, but I do very much like the sound of “I’ve never felt so liked before.”

That’s promising.

I say first see if the relationship with Geno can be improved — no harm in that. Don’t be too hasty to break that because you think someone else is going to go away soon — that’s a sign you instinctively know that person who might go away soon is romantically impulsive and is easily distracted by other women (not good).

well, my bf and me have been going otu for 2 months, and i like him but thats the problem i like him, but love al..and now there is this guy named mike who likes me ans i like him him but… i love al.

idk what to do or how to manage much anymore. um..so im a bit confused with what to do i mean…geno dosent call, talk to me, im me, he ignores me alot.

al is sweet, and kind, and waited for 5 hours for me to get online. he sat there for 5 hours! and no one has ever been like that. to me

mike, is really sweet and just like me, and i have never felt so liked b4. so…yea im a bit confused of what to do

ttyl

yea i i do, he always calls, me, he always, blows kisses, he always hugs me, he told me to look up this song called “if tomorrow never comes” and it was talking if he died he wanted me to know he loved me.

so i think, know he loves me