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Hi :)
How are you?

I am sending my Christmas greetings already, just incase I don’t see you here before the big day, I am sure I will but I would rather be safe than sorry!
So….

Hope you have a Fabtastic Christmas and new year!!!

Emily
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heys I’m Grace [cool, have you been into vampires for long?]

hi fletcher, im becca and honesty things couldnt get any shityer…you?

Okay. My name is fletcher, who and how are you?

I recall one person who did get through it writing poetry. Takes time, for sure. You’ll get through, but I understand the itch.

Yeah, that’ll do it. A lot of important connections severed, your support system crippled. Try to establish some new connections and find creative outlets.

That was an awful lot all at once, and I’m sorry for that.

o.k. so they are the best band in the world and gerard way is the hottest thing in the world

hmmm you might have to add me again i checked myspace first and didn’t know who you were… so yeah

Ah! Soo many choices.

Hrm… My thoughts.

You don’t have marriage or family plans right now, it seems — maybe just an idea of what you want for the future but not ready to settle.

What helps put perspective on your feelings Al.

Honey, it’s not normal to wait for 5 hours like that. It’s obsessive, and I think he would marvelously good and attentive in the beginning, but within 3 months you’d see he was jealous, controlling and easily angered if he felt you weren’t giving him enough attention.

I’m not saying “don’t”, just to keep an eye out for that behavior.

Geno is not giving you enough attention to make you feel secure, but be realistic about how he’s spending his time. A healthy person takes care of needs and goals, spends time with friends and family, and makes time for themselves. If he’s ignoring you for days at a time, that may be a concern. Have you talked about it with him?

I haven’t heard about Mike and how he behaves, but I do very much like the sound of “I’ve never felt so liked before.”

That’s promising.

I say first see if the relationship with Geno can be improved — no harm in that. Don’t be too hasty to break that because you think someone else is going to go away soon — that’s a sign you instinctively know that person who might go away soon is romantically impulsive and is easily distracted by other women (not good).

i’m sorry i can’t talk i’ve got to go

mina

oh my god my chemical romance is my fav. band

no its ok shes not my friend any more… but you dont need to find some thing else to do it with just concentrate on all the good you have. or your future goals… thats what im doing. screw everyone else this is about YOU now. :] so make life how you want it. and it should rock

listen i have cut to and its so hard to stop and its so hard to hide it. i know. but i didnt tell anyone untill my mom saw the scars. i got in trouble ofcourse. but she never did anything to help me…. and it hurts. my ex-bextfriend lost her dad and i know what it feels like because my fatehr and i are no where near close. it sucks. but she dosent know that i am comtimplating suicide. so she thinks that looseing her faterh a yearago is harder. belve me my closest friends have lost some one close. so have i but you my friend are haveing some major difficulties. i wish you luck and -please- let me know how you are doing and if i can help. i will be here for you if you need me. we all need some one. beleve me i know that well.

honestly. when i have a really bad day. i do cut. still. its hard to stop.
being on this site gives me freedom to tell people who care the truth. what REALLY happens. and not the half assed truth. god;s honest truth. because beleve it or not god loves us all & is here for us. -haley

I read your profile and said a prayer for your dad and keep your faith girl F*** everyone else. Excuse my language but it makes me mad. Your are awesome and so is your GOD. Who cares what they think brushing of your shoulders and moving around is hard keep your head up. Dress how you want and dont ever hurt yourself, I would have hit him too. I gotta get back to work tho hit me up Im Flex. God Bless !

bye

Thats good… b more loving and an example so they can c u and c Christ in u :)

I’m glad u are a God warrior I am too but remember his example to us was to show love even to those who crucified him… remember he said forgive them 4 they know not what they do

People mak fun of God all the time and even use his name as a cuss word… u cant do anything about that… he’ll take care of everyone right or wrong in the end…

Im just saying have balance though… if u r the only one by the flag pole praising God chances are that almost everyone will make fun of u b/c if they knew God the would join u instead.

I read your profile…. you gotta have balance in your life… if u go and stand by the flag pole by yourself with your hands in the air 4 40 min. of course the kids will make fun of you… you know God does not need u to defend him… when they spit is Jesus’s face. he didnt punch any one… you c what i mean is there r some things u should do privately… and some things you cannot control… just try to have more fun and laugh alot…

As far as school is concerned try to make friends with one person… that will help you to cope a little easier and hopefully make more friends…

Well, sorry about your loss… The loss of your dad is one of the most difficult things a person eve has to deal with…

I would say, Al is the keeper. :)

just im me its chronoalchemist6

yea its…

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well hey do you have an im, id rather talk to you on their first

Ha ha nice thats always fun. Well i mean thatd be cool, when you get on tonight shout me and ill give you my number k?

really im from ky what part of OH you from

I’m happy to help, I’m from north east Kentucky. Where are you from?

im sur there is u just cant give up tht easily ur a good person and u will someday soon find tht person

Its fine. take a look at my post “are you sad or depressed” I wrote that when I was At the lowest point in my life ever, but turned it into somthing motivating. Just hang in there. The harder this world pushes you around, the harder you will become to push.

It took away your e-mail adress when you tried to post it, have to do something like
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You gotta honor the fact that he did so much for you then. Hang in there and do him proud.

Sounds rough I am sorry that life is not treating you the way you deserve! To lose that much in your life is so difficult and it takes a strong person to get through it. Believe you are strong and that you will be ok, and you will. If you can’t do it for yourself do it in the memory of you best friend. When life tries to beat you down sometimes it is healthy to take the stand and say fu*k you world you can’t break me and survive and succeed even against the odds. Tell me what you love about yourself?

I am so sorry for what your going through but please look for some help and remember that there are people out there that love you and would miss you! take care of your self okay! my prayers will be with you!

Do you have Yahoo messenger? There is a phone that way that I think we can communicate through if you would like. My cell phone is on the charger right now but I can definately talk to you on a phone like voice thing.

right now i am in tears, because it feels u r the only person who really understands me. i hate it when the kids put fricken lables on my in not a fu****** soup can!

but..thanks. i really mean it. um if u want i can call u sometimes.

Well I really mean what I am saying. If you need a friend or someone to listen, I’m glad to be a friend for you, because you seem like a really good person.

So I, who have just barely met you can see some great things in you. Don’t give that possibility. I can only imagine if the people that are mean to you could really meet you, get to know you, they would find something really amazing.

And you write really clearly. That’s amazing for 13, especially when you’re dealing with that kind of loss. Shows a good mind.

I’m from Colorado. You sound like a really great person Becca. The way you feel about the loss of the people you love shows me the depth of your love, and that makes you special to me. I don’t meet that many people that care that much.

it really will get better you juz need to give it time and if you ever need to talk know im always here.

I am sorry you are feeling so bad, but making a number of posts will not help. If you post to much they may not take you serious. What is making you hurt so bad?

Hi friend, i dont have any idea of how bad you are feeling, but if you ever want to talk to some1, im willing to listen.