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Well, I’ve been with them for over 14 months now. I think I’ve always known what I needed to do I just needed to hear it from someone else. Thank you all =)

I’ve been in your situation many times before. I don’t know why but I have always gravitated to people who are in some sort of greater need than the rest of the world. And of course with my personality I have always felt obligated to help and be their shoulder to lean on. Maybe it’s how you’ve felt before? Anyway, slowly but surely I’ve come to the realization that some times there’s nothing you can do but let it go and be grateful for the memories you had with them.

Well, you’re not ready for it end of story. She loves you, respects you, then she should be able to accept the fact that you’re just not ready. She should be willing to wait for you to be ready rather than pushing to get married. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you don’t love her and don’t want to be with her. There’s nothing wrong with not being ready. Especially when you’re so young.

Opposites attract remember? You wouldn’t be able to learn and grow from one another, to do and see things in a way you normally wouldn’t. I personally think it would be a bit boring