The Astro-Man's shout trail with downtowndaisy - Help.com

I’m good! Keeping busy. Planning to go out of the country soon, can’t wait!

Hey yourself! It’s been a while. How’ve you been?

Hey! Just saying hello… Hope all is well!

good idea…

all IS fair..

Oh believe me, I will. I just don’t know how to go about it and avoid Andrew at the same time. I’ll make a post about it.

YOU HAVE TO CLAIM HER! haha… I told someone today that all if fair in love and war. You better go for it!

So I saw her at dinner, but I got nervous and didn’t ask for her phone number. I am definitely seeing her tomorrow at open-mic night, though. Hell, if things go well tomorrow, I may even kiss her.

There’s a bit of a problem, though. I think my friend Andrew has a bit of a crush on her. He’s going to be at the open-mic night tomorrow, too. I don’t want to make a move on her when he’s around, but at the same time, I’m not about to let him stop me.

go to www.5min.com and search for “virtualcoachin” no G. They have a website www.virtualcoaching.com too, but I’m not sure if the videos for guys are on there.

Could you send me the link to that site that has the free videos again? I seem to have lost them.

aww keep holding out! Hopefully it will pay off soon. I totally understand what you’re going through. I went through something similar for about 2 months now… and well now I am at peace… it’s stagnant and I haven’t seen him in almost 3 weeks, but I kinda ok with it all right now. Good luck!

Strange as always. This week she’s been writing a big essay and going out with her friends, but I’ve been sending her text messages every day since about Tuesday (one a day) because she’d said she ‘missed texting.’ She wrote on my Facebook that she appreciated them and though we haven’t been able to hang out with each other, once she’s done with her paper, hopefully something will happen to that effect.

I’m being extremely patient, and it’s f#ckin’ killing me.

so how is it going with you and that girl?

ehh… I probably won’t be out searching for guys any time soon. I work too much and I on my time off I don’t really go out..all my friends live at least an hour away and have busy lives just the same. So oh well… But when I go on my trip maybe some guys will drool and make him jealous hehe.

Taking it easy is probably your best bet. You’ll find yourself being less disappointed when he doesn’t call by doing it like that. Also, making yourself available for other guys to drool over might hasten his actions OR find you someone else to spend time with. At any rate, this can only work in your favor.

And now, I’m off to the launderette!

Hey so I realized I don’t really need help with my issues anymore. I think I figured it all out. What I have to do now is just be more fun to hang out with and be patient. I guess I can tell you what happened. Back in October we started talking (met on myspace). During this whole time we hit it off so well and he finally got me to admit I had a crush on him… anyway, in the same regard he wanted to ask me out but saved it until we met. December 2nd we met and it was asweome… he asked me out the next day. All of December was full of parties and fun and we really bonded really fast. January hits and it’s going great, until I asked him about marriage… well I just wanted to know his intentions in the relationship. I had just gotten out of relationship in september from a guy I was with for over 4 years (also my first relationship)..so I didn’t want to waste another 4 years of my life in a deadend relationship. A week later he broke up with me, saying that he wasn’t ready for a relationship right now, but he did ask me if he was ready down the road, would I want to… I said yes. Things have really shifted lately and I don’t find myself being so dependent on him as much as I used to be… but I still love talking to him and have feelings for him. I don’t see him as often as I used to, nor do I talk to him as much on the phone… he’s been busy with work and has been spending more time with his friends. I think I went wrong with a few things… well one thing… I got too serious too fast… simple mistake caused by inexperience! hehe. So now I’m trying to be more light-hearted about the situation and be more fun… I want to bring things back to the way they were when we first met… simple, fun, and flirty (advice from that website I sent to you). So I’ve been flirting with him more, and being my usual playful, talkative self. Hopefully things will end up the way I want them to! :)

Don’t worry about helping me… I think I have it under wraps. Don’t feel bad either.. I like helping where I can!

Let me know how things go with you and your girl… oh and let me know if I can help you with anything else!

Well… I gotta go make dinner anyway.. so I’ll write all about my problems later tonight. Goodnight! :)

Ugh. I’m just so tired of waiting.

What about your situation, though? I know you’ve opened a thread about it, but I’m still a little shaky on the details. Would you mind elaborating a bit?

(Just to be fair, I will be going to bed soon, so I won’t be able to read or respond to it for about seven hours or so, but please do tell me what’s going on in your life. I feel like I’ve just been asking for help without giving any back.)

true… I hope so at least. I’m beginning to wonder if my patience will pay off.. I think it’s lame that I barely knew him and he broke up with me…so now I’m sitting around wanting to get to know him better but can’t really because I hardly hang out or talk to him anymore.

Anyway…well… just go to the party (if you’re invited too) and see her there. Do not call her again! She needs to call you back… it’s only right. I’m sure she’ll call when she has time. If not, well… give her a call in a few days… like friday. Wait it out!! :)

Erm, that is to say, we only seem to hang out at parties. Not sure if you caught that.

I don’t think they are. I was thinking of calling her tomorrow and following up the call but now I don’t know. I really don’t know.

Tomorrow evening there is a party that she will be coming to. That’s the only time we ever seem to hang out, and it’s always bad for the relationship sort of thing.

She told me she’s writing a paper this week, but I know how much she procrastinates and I wonder why she just won’t take a minute out of her not-so-busy schedule to at least let me know why she didn’t call back.

As you can probably tell, it’s exceedingly frustrating, but if it works out, I have a feeling it will be well worth the wait, the worry, and the hard work!

Well… try not to go too fast. That’s what I did… It went as fast as it came, but boy… our kisses are still amazing! hehe. I know you’re getting antsy, but you really have to give her time. She may not be ready for a relationship right now, and you don’t want to get hurt if she changes her mind about something… a kiss wouldn’t hurt though hehe.. no more though! Don’t want to get too attached yet. Give her a day or 2 to get back to you. When it’s closer to the weekend, message her or call her up and invite her out to a special event or lunch or something. Do they have any events going on at your school this weekend?

I take it you’ve already read my recent reply to my post.

I’m still a long way from asking her on an official date. The worst is that I feel like I’m losing time. I feel very rushed to get into things, considering we don’t have much time here for our study abroad program.

It sounds silly and possibly selfish, but if I could just kiss her once, I would be incredibly satisfied.

well that’s true.. did you ask her out yet?

Not bad. Of course, things could always be a bit better.

Hey you! How are things??

Hello. :-)

That is it! Ba-na-NA!

That’s the one. Use the search parameters ‘banana aggrolites’ in YouTube and it will be the first one to pop up. Good stuff.

Believe it or not, it’s actually a classic reggae song from the ’60s.

probably. I vaguely remember a band playing a “reggaeish” song about bananas….

Yeah, they were all wearing orange and jumping around. It was during the ‘Super Music Friends Show’ segment.

In fact, I posted the link to it in the ‘I feel happy’ thread.

I think there was a banana song… did the band play the banana song?? It may be the same episode now that I think about it.

Is that the one with the Banana song that I posted? If so, then that is the best episode ever (but that’s just my bias toward The Aggrolites, haha).

haha..me either! I wish I saw it more often, but I usually watch it when I’m getting ready for work in the mornings when I wake up early. I really enjoyed the one when they were teaching about eating breakfast… I was like “man I never ate breakfast as a kid…” and now I have a hard time doing it because my brain doesn’t see it as being important…wish I had that as a kid to teach me the importance of breakfast haha.

I really wish Yo Gabba Gabba was on the air when I was a kid. Still, it’s not stopping me from watching it!

I watched 2 episodes of yo gabba gabba, and was amazed at the positive things they’re teaching kids. I want to recommend it to everyone I know that has small children. Plus the songs are so dang catchy, I’ll watch it in the morning and have it stuck in my head all day. It’s like brainwashing, but they teach lessons that I have to remind myself to do too haha :)