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Huh? Izzy I don’t get it!!! Trio??? I must be the hot one…LOL!!! I was just more or less saying Hi!

I don’t believe in fate because of our own free will… with every decision there is a choice and each choice leads to a different result, and we control and direct or choices to achieve a particular result, and Fate means that no matter what you do or decide the end result is going to be the same(There are no accidents), so my question would be if Fate exists why do we have contemplate our decisions? and if you believe in Karma then wouldn’t Fate and Karma Contradict each other? And if you believe in God, then what is the point of refraining from sin cause there is nothing you can do cause Fate would decide all….

Maybe too deep… But its a thought!

I agree with you QZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzZZZZZ, but a little humor and a little bite is just healthy no? sometimes depending on the situation one or the other is requried…. i.e. the guy (da..) saying he/she thought every young boy should have a vesectomy to prevent unwanted pregnancy. Now I replied as thoughtful as I could but that question boarder lined on rediculos and ignorant…

Not much you can do except let heal. I love paint balling… did you play at a indoor course or a outdoor course?

Well to all that don’t agree, I hope it comes your way soon… to those that do it’s nice to have something in common… I am in mood today… A good one at that…

Some how I can’t seem to remember, but my question is why are we as human(and maybe thats the key word, Human) the only truly manogomous creature in the world… Not to say that there isn’t care or (Love) in the world but why do we think that we can only love one person for the rest of our lives… and feel shame and get a low self esteem if we don’t have it or do it

Or was it created by people to help stop the spread of disease

Yeah maybe but is it that far fetched is the question

Or something created to help stop the spread of diesease’s in the early times

or a reason to be manogomous

Love is a word Created by religion to make people remain Manogomous(sp)

What is annoying about her? is it something that can be altered by bringing it to her attention?

Generally honesty is the best policy, but I would just tell her it’s wasn’t working out. Unfortunatly one way or another your gonna hurt her feelings, but keep in mind life goes on and she’ll get over it, as she has no other choice!

I don’t underdtand what the problem is… You have your boyfriend, Is it too a point where you feel the need to verbalize your feelings. What result are you hoping for? Are you eve looking for a proposal or do you just want to tell him that you want to be with him forever?

Your girlfriend will understand unless there is something your not telling us.

This post is somewhat vague…

Why do you need to tell him? maybe I’m nieve in asking but are you and you best friend intimate? If you want to spend the rest of your life with your boyfriend the answer seems obvious…

Well maybe he can’t handle the friends with benefits part or maybe just MAYBE he has other friends with benefits that really is a girlfriend… I’d be willing to bet thats what it is… The part about being friends with benefits is you can’t chase them around. It’s a casual relationship to be had on your own terms and his… I can already tell it will end up being more cause your pride is hurt. In all relationships (and yes it is a relationship of sorts) we tend to get our feelings hurt when things don’t go our own way.

I’d say find another friend or two that way your not relying on one. relying on n is when problem begin.

Also ask yourself the question… Am I comfortable being alone? answer that honestly. Cause even though you don’t want a relationship you don’t appear to want to be alone either.

If you just enjoy sex then have sex but don’t count on someone to fulfill something you can’t explain to yourself…