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hey, spur, nice pic! how’s the weather now in/near the Mediterranean? it must be nice - r u near the water?…Will :)

Hi :)
How are you?

I am sending my Christmas greetings already, just incase I don’t see you here before the big day, I am sure I will but I would rather be safe than sorry!
So….

Hope you have a Fabtastic Christmas and new year!!!

Emily
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No doubt, dirty little freaks, hehe.

Well, I must get going, I need to eat and drink.

I hope you have a great weekend, please be safe. Keep in touch, I miss having you around.

(email removed) if you want to email me too.

It’s cool to find a girl whom is willing for both sides. I have been with girls that take all the control and I have also been the one in control. Finding a balance is key.

I just got out of a thing with a guy, I found out that I was his little sex toy and nothing else.

Are you the leader or follower?

I would call myself more of the leader in relationships with women.

I give it my all with men, and No, they turn me down or let me down. They can’t handle me, close minded fools! What a shame really, because I’m great, and they will never be good enough.

And yes, girls are way better at it then guys, hehehe.

I’m getting used up and rejected.

No shit. I have become pretty bitter with them. Sad because I could be a good girlfriend, no one will give me the opportunity.

I can go to Kansas city to find myself a lady. I go to the gay bars a lot, the problem is, you really can’t met people in bars. I can dance and grab thu, that’s fun!

Well, I looked online on okcupid, but stupid guys talked dirty with me so I closed the account. It got old really fast. I talk to girls but I’m pretty sure their not really bi. Most of them I just joke with. It’s hard to find a serious girl and no, I live in a small town, no gays allowed, if you get what I’m saying.

I was looking for a hot chick! No luck, so I gave up!

You’re welcome, I hope you find the right lady. If you were around a month ago, you could have asked me out.

I understand what you’re saying, I too have grown bitter towards men. The way I look at it is, if they would stop being dumb, perhaps women women would takem them more seriously. That goes for women too.

In your life, all men do is hurt you, and act like fools, it’s to be expected for you to resent them. Perhaps being Bi, isn’t good enough, I say try women only for a while. Try it, never hurts to see where you stand.

Nice talking to you again, take care.

I started taking classes, I have test now too, bluh….

Web Design is you’re asking.

Did you figure it out?

Welcome back girl, I missed ya!

Ah, yes, click on the little green guy in account setting and in post click on the little blue guy with the plus sign.

I dream of all the help.cm members.

If you see green, click on it. Click on the add button next to their name.

Also, if you can’t figure it out, talk to Chuyskywalker.

Yes, alot of people are telling me they can’t leave me a shout cuz of the dragon or popup. I’ll get it fixed.

Thanks.

Thanks for the shout, I appreciate your offer to listen.

Hey, I haven;t seen you on the site in ages. I cetainly hope you are doing well and enjoying life. I’m no longer a site moderator on Help.com. Now I sell insurance and have little time for Help.com. Nonetheless I come occassionally and I’m glad to see you are still involved. I always thought you gave exceptional advice to people and I appreciated your worldly perspective. I wish you all the best!

thx :)

yeh i care to help
what with sweetie
xxx

im not sure how u send links on help.com actually heh, care to help? :p

So what you sorry about girl? :P

oh no send me the link il reply
xxx

That is awesome Spur! I hope you have a great time in the UK. Social work is so rewarding and helping others is something that I feel human beings were born to do. When are you going to the UK?

yeah, that’s why you just hide the traps really well. maybe get like a dead bug and like a science-type store and look at it. I feel badly for you but i guess it’s cute when girls get scared sometimes

i saw ur post about bugs, try laying out bug traps in hidden places and then u don’t have to deal with the bugs or the traps. To get over the fear, try picking up a spider and looking at it closely to see how beautiful it is. Good luck do u need help not posting to urself? I’ve been to the mediteranian a few times. So pretty

Bugs, can’t live with ‘em, can’t live without ‘em!

I just read your profile. I am terrible with geography! Where is Nicosia, in the Mediterranean?

Good good :) Have you ever been to the Mediterranean?

im 21… :)

i do yes? why you ask? do you?….

Nothin much.. just chillin and helpin out heh..you? :p

im good thx, wht u up 2

how are you doing?

spur_cons1 of course I’ll be your friend. Am interested to share with me your sikhism, also your concern about american globalization. I’m an immigration lawyer and have interest in opinions of people from the meditranean area. ( that your area) mountain man

Your bug stories are hillarious!!! They sound so much like some of mine! Here is the best one;
I was at my new place, and I didn’t have a bed set up yet. I was sleeping on a mattress on the floor, and I saw a huge disgusting centipede go under the mattress. I was scared, but I went tried not to think about it. Just then, I saw the nasty thing in my bed!!!!! It crawled into the bed sheets and I couldn’t find it!!! I was horrified, so I called my boyfriend who lived about 30 minutes away to drive me to my mother’s place (she lives about 40 minutes from my place). It was 10:00 at night and I had work the next day! I got the bed set up the next day and put all four legs of the bed into little shallow tins of water to keep bugs out of my bed!!!! I probably need therapy. lol!

oh and we only start languages in year 7

um…i dont know when graduation is…but im in year 8, thats 12-13 years old. in 3 years i take my final GCSE exams, in 2nd year of college, A levels (5 years time) then after that university

i havent taken it to fluency, but will do. im only year 8 lol

just dont give notice..she’ll respect it after a while. She’ll calm down

Alrighty, take care. About the being with guys, you’re not missing out on much :p talk to u later then!I’d love to help. Ciao :)

lol. Anyway, im gonna be going now. honestly, i havent been with a guy b4, just girls, but ive heard stories. Its nite here, so im gonna say gnite. Nice talking to u, hope 2 talk some more. And i’ll be asking for some advice from u soon enough.