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• What do I wanna do in life? posted (1 day, 8 hours) ago
  I get conflicted. I switch back and forth between wanting to isolate myself and go far away from t…

• I hate my father so **** much, posted (6 days, 1 hour) ago
  why doesnt he knock? Seriously, im 17. You think he’d learn by now that its appropriate to kn…

• I have a lump in my armpit… posted (6 days, 8 hours) ago
  ITs small but it hurts when i touch it. I noticed it about 2 months ago but then it went away. Its …

• Im thinking of taking her back… posted (2 weeks, 1 day) ago
  I miss her a lot already and i was crying earlier just at all the memories. I feel like this might …

• To those who helped me through those hard and rough times… thankyou. posted (2 weeks, 3 days) ago
  I wish it was happily ever after for snar and his girl, but it isn’t. Many of you know my stor…

• A little sacrifice posted (2 weeks, 3 days) ago
  A little kindess A little love…. A small smile…. It can make all the difference :)…

• I am caught in a preserved state of madness and uncertainty. posted (2 weeks, 6 days) ago
  It has taken me a long time to realize even partially the nature of the subconscious feeling of unea…

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Snar's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) ~Closed~
  

  Complaining posts do take up a lot of the front page sometimes as well (irony alert!). But truly, if one helps a lot I cant see as to how we can blame them for being at least somewhat social in an environment of lots of people… its human nature! We can’t really fight the people who are flooding chat posts unless the mods are willing to shut them down, and frankly I’m sure all of us at some point have chatted on posts when we shouldve been helping, I’m guilty of it and Id be very VERY surprised if none of you have ever gone off topic here.
  
  The thing is, if we want to change help.com being unhelpful heres the solution: go to the list of recent posts, find the ones where no-one has helped (not just the front page) and HELP!.
  
  - written 2 months ago – voted for by Mas1st, It's a Kilt

• (2 votes) How do you feel about seeing clothing that costs $10,000+
  

  Let me be 100 percent clear in mys tance and in reality. We do not need to have this failing system, we do not need to have homles sand unemployed and people dying in 3rd world countries everyday in mass graves. Thats right, i said it, there is a possibility to change that. ANd we can kepe telling ourselves that its the flaws of man keeping us at bay at that they are un-changeable but they arent, we just refuse to get off our ***** for a second to do something about it.
  
  WE CAN BE BLAMED. we SHOULD be blamed. Is paying taxes and living an excuse not to be blamed? Like hell it is. And if you think everyone on welfare or even MOST people on welfare got their by your own mistakes your living in a dream world. People are born into poverty buddy.
  
  - written 3 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by ladyphoenix444, SingerInPurple

• (1 vote) u do know that the bums on the street make more then
  

  [quote shane is a Christian]okay, i know this for one fact, a guy living on the street from a guy that i know was offered a job, A JOB.he worked for one day, the boss cam out the next day saw him on the same street corner when asked why, he said “I can make more money on the street then working for you!” and he can where whatever he WANTS, top that story[/quote]
  
  Ok thats one story, thats one bum. You made a blanket statement.
  
  - written 2 weeks, 1 day ago – voted for by Anon2008

• (1 vote) give me 2 min.
  

  What good is revenge? Trying to move on despite the pain is the only productive course of action.
  
  - written 3 weeks ago – voted for by sans-sans

• (1 vote) what is wrong with me?
  

  Heres the thing, you need to be comfortable in your own skin… you need to feel comfortable with yourself. You need to enjoy your own company as well as appreciate who you are. Once you have done that, once you are comfortable in being yourself, then the rest falls into place. You dont NEED to have the approval of others…you just need to have the approval of yourself. Because if you get your validation from popularity, you will never feel complete nor satiated.
  
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago – voted for by kelvs

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• What do I wanna do in life?
  

  [quote SingerInPurple]snar! I was having the same inner battle with myself today…deep down inside I want to be a writer, but I know I’m not going to become one….I’ll probably end up being a doctor or something. It’s just that, there’s so much uncertainty with being a writer, but if you’re good, then you should do it. I’ve always had a problem with following my heart, but I hope you don’t. Good Luck![/quote]
  
  Thanks singer, im sure ull make it too :). We can swap copies of eachothers books in a few years eh?
  
  
  [quote Ludicer]I think you’ll be able to choose a satisfying path, as soon as you have enough urge to act. Most people who work for social change don’t ask to become one but feel the urge for it. As you have the feeling, but not clearly right now, you will probabluy have an open path to do whatever you want pretty soon enough. If you’re really bored of hiding in your security limits, you’ll act when you see an opportunity. otherwise, you’ll force the conditions. That’s what I think for myself, being in a similar dilemma.. Maybe it will inspire you.[/quote]
  
  I hope I will act when I see an oppurtunity. Thanks Ludicer, your words are hopeful :)
  - written 1 day, 7 hours ago

• latey ive been not myself ..my boy friend is to much into him self..never tells me he loves me or even say im pretty..
  

  Have you considered movign out? Is that financially possible? Also talk to your boyfriend about how you feel, you’ll never solve this by just hoping hell suddenly snap out of it.
  - written 2 days, 17 hours ago

• How old were you when you got your first kiss?
  

  eh, you get the hang of kissing pretty fast… it isnt hard XD.
  - written 4 days, 1 hour ago

• How old were you when you got your first kiss?
  

  [quote αиgєl♥]i want my first kiss =( haha[/quote]
  
  itll come. DOnt rush it. Bad idea…
  - written 4 days, 2 hours ago

• How old were you when you got your first kiss?
  

  16. It was pretty bad too XD
  - written 4 days, 2 hours ago

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