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• (1 vote) i get called fattie sometimes at school wot should i do ?
  

  By letting people bully you with name calling, you are agreeing with them because of your lack of self-esteem. You have been belittled so much that you believe these people. The thing you must remember is that usually people that do that have a fear of their own, are afraid to admit it, and take their frustration out on people like you. Since you both have unwarranted fears they are no better than you. You can help each other by keeping your head up, ignore these people, or ask them what it is they find so offensive about you to be treated so. Tell them it hurts to be treated like that and you only want to be liked too. Being different is not wrong and in some cases is seen as being independent and confident in yourself when your head is up with a smile on your face, despite criticism by others. Don’t worry about what others think about you. Get to know yourself. What you like, what makes you special. Like yourself. Unless you do no one else will ever like you. If you have trouble with your weight and want to lose it, see your doctor…or make friends with a person who is in shape and would like to help you. Speak out with confidence. Explain why you want to fit in. You are as special to your creator as those who offend you. Therefore, most importantly, ask Jesus to help you. Without Him, you will never solve your problem. Pray as you would talk to a friend and ask for help, believing that help is already on the way. God knew you before you were born. He knows your purpose on earth. Link up with Him. He’ll tell you what you need to know. Keep your head up and smile… Your brother in Christ..a fatty too. No one sees it because I don’t see it as a problem. I am greatful for the creature I am. I’ve been there and know what you’re going through. Patience and maturity have blessed me with beautiful children and grandchildren. They are good student-athletes. We laugh and kid lovingly together about my big ol’ tummy. Come Christmas, I’m the best Santa around. Yes, I am 65 yrs. old. But, I was your age once. Be strong…and remember Jesus. He died for us to be free of evil. Let go of your fear and let God do His thing.
  
  - written 5 years, 8 months ago – voted for by Silverwings

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• i get called fattie sometimes at school wot should i do ?
  

  By letting people bully you with name calling, you are agreeing with them because of your lack of self-esteem. You have been belittled so much that you believe these people. The thing you must remember is that usually people that do that have a fear of their own, are afraid to admit it, and take their frustration out on people like you. Since you both have unwarranted fears they are no better than you. You can help each other by keeping your head up, ignore these people, or ask them what it is they find so offensive about you to be treated so. Tell them it hurts to be treated like that and you only want to be liked too. Being different is not wrong and in some cases is seen as being independent and confident in yourself when your head is up with a smile on your face, despite criticism by others. Don’t worry about what others think about you. Get to know yourself. What you like, what makes you special. Like yourself. Unless you do no one else will ever like you. If you have trouble with your weight and want to lose it, see your doctor…or make friends with a person who is in shape and would like to help you. Speak out with confidence. Explain why you want to fit in. You are as special to your creator as those who offend you. Therefore, most importantly, ask Jesus to help you. Without Him, you will never solve your problem. Pray as you would talk to a friend and ask for help, believing that help is already on the way. God knew you before you were born. He knows your purpose on earth. Link up with Him. He’ll tell you what you need to know. Keep your head up and smile… Your brother in Christ..a fatty too. No one sees it because I don’t see it as a problem. I am greatful for the creature I am. I’ve been there and know what you’re going through. Patience and maturity have blessed me with beautiful children and grandchildren. They are good student-athletes. We laugh and kid lovingly together about my big ol’ tummy. Come Christmas, I’m the best Santa around. Yes, I am 65 yrs. old. But, I was your age once. Be strong…and remember Jesus. He died for us to be free of evil. Let go of your fear and let God do His thing.
  - written 5 years, 8 months ago

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