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• its unbareable… and im so fed up.
  

  your sister and the boyfriend- well its call infatuation. in time it will wear off some. your right she should be a role model but sometimes older siblings forget that and get wrapped up in thier own little world. instead of her being your role model you should be yourself. don’tlet romance rule your life. be your own person and let her see that you can be a role model too. a role model is a person that does the right thing for the right reasons. that is why we look up to them not just because they are older and suppossibly wiser. sometimes age allowss errors and errors lead us astray. sometimes we learn best what not to do from watching others mistakes rather then learning what to do. be yourself, be true to yourself and let her lead her own path
  - written 5 years, 7 months ago

• its unbareable… and im so fed up.
  

  honey you can be an artist and a doctor. one requires college education the other requires talent. if you arewilling to put forthe the effort it can happen. but truthfully instead of trying to make other people proud of you you need to make yourself proud and they will follow suit. as long as you are not a drunk, drug addict or in jail i’m sure they as parents are happy with you, sometimes a parent wnats more for heir child then they can give and othertimes a parent will think that be casue they can’t do better then there is no better. it’s up to you, your efforts , your goals, and your willingness to do what has to be done to acheive those goals. onething to remember -doctors make money, artists make pretty. you can’t live on pretty alone. but many doctors have hobbies that can make them money as well on the side. get the point. good luck and don’t think about leaving this world the optional locations aren’t that great.
  - written 5 years, 7 months ago

• i have more then a problem.
  

  he still lives here although he is rarely here. he sleeps on the couch. I asked for a divorce in 2000 and he’s response was…”I’m not through with oyu yet and when I am you won’t be able to do anything without me.” he has made other quotes to the effect that he hates me and wishes i would find someone else but he wo’t leave becasue it will look bad in the eyes of his family. there are several abusive relationships in his family that i will not tolerate but he is supreme being and he is the master of all and all is in his control and if not then it’s only because of him that it is anyway. there are no authorities higher then his own agenda even the irs waits for him to get around to it. there is no public assisance for me because he stays here. he has this address on his license and there for we are a couple so we have a dual income that doesn’t warrant assisance. he doesn’t care aout the house or house hold just what is seen by his peers when he’s in public. that is why I stopped attending public affairs with him years ago. we are seen in public twice a year and those are fuctions for the kids. the state can’t help. a lawyer says i can take him for everything but i don’t want that. i just want my house and my daughter to be able to go to college. he can keep all his investments just give me the house let the college have the paperwork they need and leave me alone. but he won’t and as long as his name is on the house i can’t refi because he won’t sign and he won’t sell to avoid foreclosure either. why becasue it would be admitting he failed. i have talked to him many times. as it is now he only has a 700$ amonth resposibility in the household budget and WON’T meet those obligations.
  - written 5 years, 7 months ago

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