laffingirli's reply history at Help.com

Stop thinking about him. It’s your thoughts that are making you feel the way you do, you are in control of your thoughts and they give rise to the way you feel.

Let it go, focus on doing the things you always wanted to but couldn’t with him around. Put yourself first, you deserve the best out of life, not being with someone you no longer trust.

People come and go, make the most of the moment and appreciate all the lessons you learn.

We only have bad relationships so that we can recognise a good one when it comes along.

7.21 pm - Shropshire England

You can only marry someone because you feel you belong together, that you cannot imagine your life without that person.

When you love someone you accept all of them 100% and do not fire ultimatums at each other. Love provides you with all the answers you need; you instinctively know the right thing to do.

I suggest that if you wanted to be married you would have committed to each other a long time ago and you would not be asking. People in our lives ultimately teach us about ourselves. Share your feelings with her and move on and set both of you free.

“What belongs to us, abides with us and what no longer abides, no longer belongs.”