the only problem we have with following their games is that they have indicated they want us to divorce. which they can’t force us but as you know they do it anyway. but other than it not being right to make us and we DO NOT want to divorce we really can’t because they would like to bring criminal charges but can’t because they don’t have enough evidence and if we divorce they can use us and our statements against each other even if we don’t say anything bad. our criminal atty says that is the only thing he is afraid of. i’m sorry to hear they did what they did to you i really am. its messed up on too many levels. my spouses grandfather was in the Vietnam war and is a true blue american and he said something i’ll never forget. he said this is the most communist thing he has ever seen in his life. for someone from his generation to say that about an american system….
i understand the holidays are hard. this is the first time i’ve spent them away from my children. i think things are getting better because they say there willing to allow me visitations and we’re hopping to get our oldest for a 90 day placement today. the fst is in about 15 min and i’m freaking out because i have to participate over the phone and i don’t trust they will take it well. they are so quick to say someone isn’t participating…
hey Shei just thinking about you and wondered how everything has been goin ,we havent spoken in some time and i was just curious
actually concerned i miss your good vibes:)
and your wellfare niggles at my conscious
please let us know your ok at least
I was told you might be able to help me, and after reading your story about your children my heart broke. I thought we were alone that it was a horror we were facing unlike any other person has seen. I look forward to talking with you, maybe we can help each other. i know its hard to hear but happy holidays, you deserve it.
Wow, i love what you just said it’s like me talking to myself…i am not strong but i would need to get up really fast after each fall…my son is expecting a lot from me…you know he calls me ‘wonder mom’. :)
So he cannot see a ‘wondermom’ weak. She needs to be graceful in every endeavor. And at the end of the day i smile because i have done my job well. :)
That’s true, therefore i am in the right track. You’re very strong i know all people tell you that. And it’s really a gift. I’ve seen so many posts in here, helpless women who could not just move on months after months even years. It’s so sad really. I took care of a post and i was weeping while i was typing. I thought i was crazy but i think it was a release. :)
When is dating again too soon? lol sorry i’m asking questions like this! :DD
Hhahah, same as mine, have you heard of Multiply? eheh last year i used to put all pictures i take in bulky albums. It allows to hold all pictures so i just visit there just to do the same thing. lol bad!
I hate it when someone stalks on my stuff. Yeah including the ex. But the account goes with settings right, it would secure them in one place and no one gets access to them.
Yea i know what you mean. But you know people can also be free to ask but sometimes they don’t think first before asking and people concerned would really get hurt or piss off with that kind of question. It’s a form of accusation. But i was wondering where the poster is coming from.
I go to work, come home take off my coat, then start on household chores and dinner, I’m tired but Ill do it, simply because I love my family, I don’t get paid for it all, I should really be out there looking at the sunset with friends, and just enjoying my life.
I raised my children, changed diapers, took them to school, ran around for after school activities, when gosh I should have been out there watching the sunset and enjoying myself.
I watch the news and see young girls of 15 being abducted and murdered, I fear for my daughter, why ? because I love her. Ive done my best for my daughter and I hurt at the things she says to me, when I should be out there enjoying myself with my friends.
There are children out there with no parents, parents that abuse their children sexually and otherwise, I try to give my children my love and look out for their safety,always remember something, a good Mother does what she does because she loves you, and worries what happens to you, nobody will ever love you like your mother so do me a favor, help her with those dishes when she’s tired, she’ll probably swop that little bit of homework for the multitude of chores and work she’s trying to shuffle. :-)
” A weird mom”
it has loads of great signs and symptoms on there of abuse. I do ask that if you send anyone there, that you please.. please.. please.. take precaution because i do not want spammers on there destroying what I want to be a good site.. I want to make sure this site is taken with respect and a great deal of respect because to me D.V is not a joke.. Many hugs, love shie..
so sorry I havent been around as of late.. just know that i love ya all… many many hugs… :)
Hello, hello dear friend! Sorry I have been working the swing shift which has me trying to get a decent nights sleep. My pc crashed and had to get a complete recovery so lost everything :( Hope all is going well for you and yours. Happy Halloween to you Shie! so glad I;m up and running again. Maybe now I can get that awesome comic relief you are so very good at, LOL.. Are you still on messenger? We’ll have to connect sometime. I’d like that. Well (trick or treat) night here, so going as myself, now that is a scary thought, LOL. Have missed you! X…
Nice to hear from you Shie! :) one day i went to lum and found your good news about your kids. I think i replied to your post too late, but i am really happy for you getting reunited with them! :)) i so hate going to doctors too! i never had the feeling of going to the hospital pleasant. :s
Hey take care okay? and let me know stuff on Saturday when you are free…and when the doctor’s clinics are closed! hehehe!