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I second Babacup request!

I seen you had logged on and I was searching for an update. Next time you are here, let us know you are doing.

How are those babies and Grandbaby?

Holy guacamole, I can’t believed you signed in after more than a year and didn’t leave a single comment. Used to, we couldn’t have shut you up if we tried!

Hi Shie, haven’t spoken to you for ages….

Hope things are still going in the right direction for you and you are getting close to having All your family back.

Just wanted to wish you a very Happy Christmas and hope the New Year brings all that you so deserve.

Love Is x

hiya shie..long time no speak,hows things .hope youre hapyy xx

Hey! I noticed you were online earlier & I haven’t seen ya on here in forever so I thought I’d say hi! Hope all is well :)

sorry, he was actually in ww2.

the only problem we have with following their games is that they have indicated they want us to divorce. which they can’t force us but as you know they do it anyway. but other than it not being right to make us and we DO NOT want to divorce we really can’t because they would like to bring criminal charges but can’t because they don’t have enough evidence and if we divorce they can use us and our statements against each other even if we don’t say anything bad. our criminal atty says that is the only thing he is afraid of. i’m sorry to hear they did what they did to you i really am. its messed up on too many levels. my spouses grandfather was in the Vietnam war and is a true blue american and he said something i’ll never forget. he said this is the most communist thing he has ever seen in his life. for someone from his generation to say that about an american system….

what was their reason for taking them after you got full custody? i’m asking because my spouse thinks that once they get full custody back we are going to leave.

i understand the holidays are hard. this is the first time i’ve spent them away from my children. i think things are getting better because they say there willing to allow me visitations and we’re hopping to get our oldest for a 90 day placement today. the fst is in about 15 min and i’m freaking out because i have to participate over the phone and i don’t trust they will take it well. they are so quick to say someone isn’t participating…

Shiieeee!!! :))

hey Shei just thinking about you and wondered how everything has been goin ,we havent spoken in some time and i was just curious
actually concerned i miss your good vibes:)
and your wellfare niggles at my conscious
please let us know your ok at least

hey, this is Qzzzz

Hey Sport…just wondering how you were doing!

I was told you might be able to help me, and after reading your story about your children my heart broke. I thought we were alone that it was a horror we were facing unlike any other person has seen. I look forward to talking with you, maybe we can help each other. i know its hard to hear but happy holidays, you deserve it.

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Just had dinner. :)

Yes, kids give such amazing power. They are small creatures who never fail to give so much inspiration. Your kids have grown up and they are very good looking. :)

Lots of hugs back at ya!

Alrighty, get some sleep dear, say my hi to Roger, tell him Mr. Hanky is doing his job well.

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Wow, i love what you just said it’s like me talking to myself…i am not strong but i would need to get up really fast after each fall…my son is expecting a lot from me…you know he calls me ‘wonder mom’. :)

So he cannot see a ‘wondermom’ weak. She needs to be graceful in every endeavor. And at the end of the day i smile because i have done my job well. :)

That is so sad…getting married in the hope of getting over a past love.

And yes you are right,getting to know people is going to help and that’s what i am doing. :) you never know. hehehe! *blushes*

llaaallaalllaaa…..

lmao!

That’s true, therefore i am in the right track. You’re very strong i know all people tell you that. And it’s really a gift. I’ve seen so many posts in here, helpless women who could not just move on months after months even years. It’s so sad really. I took care of a post and i was weeping while i was typing. I thought i was crazy but i think it was a release. :)

When is dating again too soon? lol sorry i’m asking questions like this! :DD

Hehehe! wise woman!
Can i ask you something? if you are not into answering that’s okay….

I would like to know how long you got over your ex. Did it take more than a month? several months?

Hhahah, same as mine, have you heard of Multiply? eheh last year i used to put all pictures i take in bulky albums. It allows to hold all pictures so i just visit there just to do the same thing. lol bad!

I hate it when someone stalks on my stuff. Yeah including the ex. But the account goes with settings right, it would secure them in one place and no one gets access to them.

I want to see pictures of you, i think some of them are in luminosity? :) yea i think.

Funny, i opened myspace 3 years ago with my ex (hehe) and then after that i did not open it anymore and i have forgotten the password. lol

In my country most people use friendster and now facebook. :)

Heheh, me too. Someone said my avatar from afar looks like a ROOSTER hahahaha!!!!

And i did not think of that before but then they told me so i looked. And yes, it looks like a rooster indeed! lol lol

So i want to change it, but…nahhhh! Can’t! :DD

You are so right Shie, and i agree when you said they should have researched before putting it on top. :s

Oppps there is no profile.

Hugs Shie! i hope you feel well. I like your picture also in your facebook! :)

Yea i know what you mean. But you know people can also be free to ask but sometimes they don’t think first before asking and people concerned would really get hurt or piss off with that kind of question. It’s a form of accusation. But i was wondering where the poster is coming from.

I’ll look.

Hahaah! yes, it was soooo YOU! :D
If this was face to face debate i would just sit in the corner with a clapper in my hand. :) i’m enjoying reading! lol

Hheh i’ve replied to your email.

And i am invited to that post twice. And i am not American so i won’t have something to say. :))

Huggies!

I have received your email just now and thank you so much for the encouraging words. They help a lot. I have replied to both here and the email just so you won’t miss any of them.
Hugs.

after a year, i am here again. back to none.

Shie. :( thank you for coming to the post.

Hey girl. A couple of us are on Lum chat now if you’re up to it. May not be for long.

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Thats better, have a great day girlfriend !!! xxx

sorry paste button was still full of a post, will go get me birfday thing lol

Have a great day hon !!! xxx

I go to work, come home take off my coat, then start on household chores and dinner, I’m tired but Ill do it, simply because I love my family, I don’t get paid for it all, I should really be out there looking at the sunset with friends, and just enjoying my life.
I raised my children, changed diapers, took them to school, ran around for after school activities, when gosh I should have been out there watching the sunset and enjoying myself.
I watch the news and see young girls of 15 being abducted and murdered, I fear for my daughter, why ? because I love her. Ive done my best for my daughter and I hurt at the things she says to me, when I should be out there enjoying myself with my friends.
There are children out there with no parents, parents that abuse their children sexually and otherwise, I try to give my children my love and look out for their safety,always remember something, a good Mother does what she does because she loves you, and worries what happens to you, nobody will ever love you like your mother so do me a favor, help her with those dishes when she’s tired, she’ll probably swop that little bit of homework for the multitude of chores and work she’s trying to shuffle. :-)
” A weird mom”

Congratulations

To those who leave me shouts. I am not really wanting to leave this out to the whole bunch of spammers… so.. if you are here to send me a shout.. I have made a new site directly for Domestic Violence.

http://helpstopdomesticviolence.webs….

it has loads of great signs and symptoms on there of abuse. I do ask that if you send anyone there, that you please.. please.. please.. take precaution because i do not want spammers on there destroying what I want to be a good site.. I want to make sure this site is taken with respect and a great deal of respect because to me D.V is not a joke.. Many hugs, love shie..

so sorry I havent been around as of late.. just know that i love ya all… many many hugs… :)

Hello, hello dear friend! Sorry I have been working the swing shift which has me trying to get a decent nights sleep. My pc crashed and had to get a complete recovery so lost everything :( Hope all is going well for you and yours. Happy Halloween to you Shie! so glad I;m up and running again. Maybe now I can get that awesome comic relief you are so very good at, LOL.. Are you still on messenger? We’ll have to connect sometime. I’d like that. Well (trick or treat) night here, so going as myself, now that is a scary thought, LOL. Have missed you! X…

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Hiii hun. What email address are you on? Email me on the lxa @ live.co.uk and i’ll reply. I get it to my phone now :)

Can’t wait to hear from ya babes glad your still popping in now and then xxx

just checking on you..hope you are okay!

Cotton, Qzzzz, Spunky, etc..loll

do NOT post here anymore…a great site is answerbag.com I’m Cotton101 there! come see me!

Nice to hear from you Shie! :) one day i went to lum and found your good news about your kids. I think i replied to your post too late, but i am really happy for you getting reunited with them! :)) i so hate going to doctors too! i never had the feeling of going to the hospital pleasant. :s

Hey take care okay? and let me know stuff on Saturday when you are free…and when the doctor’s clinics are closed! hehehe!

i miss you!!

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Hello Shie! thinking of you!

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hey, out of here…if you ever want a fun site, check out answerbag.com

Hope you are okay..noticed that you have not been here in a while.

Take care!

Hello shie,
how are you?
Your friend,
Luck of the Irish (aka Ireland)

Sorry, I just got your last shout, I don’t come around here much. I just got tired of the ugliness, shame for a help site, it wasn’t seeming that helpful, lol.

Glad that things are improving for you. If you still have my email address you can email anytime or send me a message at Luminosity, I will get it there.

Take Care

Have you heard from Nikko? She removed me from her msn yesterday and I found this post!!

I’m worried… http://help.com/post/314491-hi-shie