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• hi.. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  been a while since i’ve been on here. i’m in trouble. i’m praying as much as i can…

• hi! posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  i miss being here, i haven’t been able to because of my computer doesn’t tolerate it..c…

• My computer crashes everytime i try to respond to any posts including my own. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  sometimes i can’t even finish reading before it shuts this page down again. something is wrong…

• comments about Efexor-Xr? posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  i’ve battled with anxiety and depression for so long and i manage well at times but generally…

• my computer keeps crashing on posts so i can’t stay here :( sorry but posting seems to work now but lately this whole site keeps crashing on my PC posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  computer keeps crashing on posts so i can’t stay here :( sorry but posting seems to work now …

• Miracles? posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  Does anyone like to share personal experiences of something that was a miracle to them? I’m t…

• To Nyx, Lazydaze and Burnt! posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  it’s me… i have to go now but not before a very heartfelt thank you. God bless.…

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• i think my friend is in love with me but will not say but he tries to sabotage my relationships with others.
  

  but i don’t like him back that way. i feel bad if it’s painful for him to see me with someone else, but i cannot develop feelings for him just to be nice and as much as i understand if might be hard for him, i would never stand in anyone’s way of finding happiness in any way even if it meant i would ‘lose’ them as potential boyfriend. he cannot ‘lose’ me as a girlfriend because i never will be his girlfriend but he sure is risking losing the best friend he can have in me, i’m getting very upset about it and at least he could tell me and instead support me and learn to be happy for me. i feel he’s breaking my trust if things don’t change.
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago

• I’m very suicidal.
  

  even if you have to take a whole year over again and you lose your job - know that you are at a particularly difficult time and place in the longer timeline of life…. nobody has a right to ever judge you and your ability. give yourself a chance to see it through and try use the resources you have inside and with thearpy and even ‘the worst’ is not all that bad - it frightens you only if you think it is the end of the world - life DOES go on and you WILL change. it might take longer than you like but it is denifinite that things will change… you really can’t go wrong in life, we all end up dead one day… any pain is only temperal and any ‘disaster’ is only temperal… just have a “F U” attiitude to people and events that get you down and have even greater love for yourself. u never know, one day you might be the ONLY person who makes a significant difference for someone else’s life and we never know how life makes use of our strenght to endure in mysterious ways. hang in there buddy, it comforts to know that i’mmpart of a world of others who feel despair but still hang in there, come what may.
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago

• I’m very suicidal.
  

  when life is at its worst it call upon you to be at your best, to look deeper for strenght and to fight even harder just to stay in the game. life is a game. it will end eventually. nothing will last. nothing will ever matter. so stay in it for the ride as long at it lasts - you never know where and when your last stop is and there will be hundreds of places the ride will take you. surely you’re only part of mankind for being pushed to your limits, when all goes wrong ask yourself what you fear the most? is it worse than death? if you fail college? if you go through unemployment? if your mom has to fight her own battle and in her own journey.. - all of this is and more does not mean it’s over. hope is always the brightest and strongest when it’s at the darkest. you are more than your body, mind and thoughts and ideas and feelings. get in touch with your core and centre yourself on the love and peace that remains untouched by any outer circumstances.
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago

• Does everyone find true love?
  

  [quote Captain Setto][quote koala][quote Captain Setto]i think everyone can.not everyone does.same as anything.[/quote]i think that’s very scary to think of![/quote]how so?[/quote]
  
  well…what does it depend on? faith? luck? karma? lol. i’m not disagreeing but it is frightening that it is possible that it can never happen…
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• Does everyone find true love?
  

  [quote babacup]Yes everyone can find true love. BUT you need to love yourself first. You can not give true love to someone if you don’t love yourself.[/quote]
  
  i like that line of thought a lot. if you include yourself, definately everyone can..or maybe…it is not that easy. indeed truly loving ourselves ..even fewer people do that!
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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