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don’t worry, im in a messy situation too, a lot of things have been goin on with me but we are gonna get through it, know that your not a lone and also that soon everything will clear up, if you wanna clean things up in your life, take it one step at a time, everything turns around i promise you that. changes can happen at anytime, might take a while or could happen sooner than you think, just hold on :]

im glad, i know you’ll make it out :D. i’m someone who listens to metal and stuff but my friend was playing this song called Someones Watching Over Me- by Hilary Duff and one of the lyrics i found inspirational was

“So I won’t give up
No I won’t break down
Sooner than it seems life turns around
And I will be strong
Even if it all goes wrong
When I’m standing in the dark I’ll still believe
Someone’s watching over me”

i understnad that things happen for a reason, everything is a learning experience, even the bad things. i hope i find him too. thanks meaah 3 :]

ha lemme tell you something anon. your not the only one whos been living in hell because of there parents. all my mom does is bug me and accuse and threaten me and NEVER SHUTS HER MOUTH. i have a family who looks at me weird bdecause im so different from everyone in my family. they all think im not gonna go far in life and end up in the streets when i havent done ANYTHING wrong, havent done drugs or anything. ive always did good in school too. but my parents just put there **** on me. killing yourself is NOT the answer because i know things are gonna get better. you just have to make the change and try to think of ways to just ignore your parents negativity and your gonna be fine. i been doing that and i been ok and less depressed. music is pretty much what helps me but DONT kill yourself. and also your probabl important to someone else, you prob just dont know it, so dont ruin it for them. and there are other kids out there who suffer too but are still going through with it. you’ll be strong enough to keep going, it will make you feel lieka hero.

its being a teenager, not all girls make a huge deal, thats stereotyping but for most girls i guess its because we are girls… estrogen takes over XD. but there are also boys thati know who are WAY WORSE than a girl

anytime, i wish you the best 3 and whenever you need us, we are all here :D

[quote Mikey87]the problem is i am an extrovert i thrive on talking to people and meeting new people the problem is i am extremely shy and i have no confidence. wow what a great combination[/quote]

aha im just like you. im very introverted and shy. but ive made a lot of friends. you just have to find something you like to do and get involved. sometimes, maybe you dont need others. ive made it without others. try to find a goal you want to accomplish, maybe you can meet new friends along the way

thanks i appreciate the feed back :]

nice ok, i have a link too but not all my good drawings are in there, just a few. my link is

http://xsilence15.deviantart.com/

ah yeah true, it would be better, i’ll figure a way to show you. have you ever heard of a site called deviantart.com?

haha in spanish? thats weird. hmm,

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index…

try that

i like it. i draw too, been drawing since i was little, my myspace link to my art album is here. im 16 btw :D

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index…

you dont have to give up your dream, maybe just put it off for now or something, but you can always accomplish your dream. just keep going. make plans think of ways to figure this out and solve money. maybe your kids can make money too, like make a lemonade stand =]. i used to do that when my parents got a divorce and my mom had trouble making money. wasnt much but every bit counts =]. i hope your able to accomplish your dream. because nothing is impossible to accomplish

i hear so many people say they are tired of everything and that everything seems so ******.
also questions are asked like “why does this happen to me?” “why does this happen, what was the reason, what did i do to deserve this?”

my thoughts are that maybe, its good to have good and bad things happen. sure yeah the bad things might hurt us so much but we should NEVER walk away from a ****** situation with out learning something from it. for exxample. when your little and you touch somethign that burns, thats a ****** situation, but you learn how to avoid that and make things better. sometimes it takes ****** situations to make things better. just know your gonna get through that rollercoaster and dont let yourself down. everyday is a learning experience, look back and think about how you can change.

dont think your the only one with these problems, ive suffered a lot when i was younger andd i still feel like **** at home still but im not letting it bother me or get my self depressed over it. dont end your life because of your family, that shows your weak, very weak, you need to prove to everyone, most of all yourself. that your strong and that you can kick as.s. i know you can do it.

this isnt a dating service website =/