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ive lived without a father figure since i was very young, and things have been so hard for me and my mom, she was depressed and its like i grew up raising myself because i felt like i could trust no one. also i was sick all the time because i had a hard time in school, i was always afraid and upset but ive been inspired by a few things and ive been doing better. so dont think your the only one with problems. we all have them and you come here for us to help you. maybe not physically but mentally, i hope for the best for you and that things get better

Acenei i have a lot of respect for you, keep going and your gonna find your answer =]. as for Mallocup, you shouldn’t do it also because, when you realize that you can end i and your able to fix it. then later you’ll be that person telling the other person not to kill themselves because its wrong and you know how they felt. and then you’ll save them.

getting high doesnt solve anything, sure it might feel good but dont do it. its irresponsible

Mallocup. dont end your life, things are bad now, but you know what, suicide isnt the answer. its stupid, there are other people who sufffer as much or even way more than you do. i been depressed before, ive had so much **** happen to me but im still here. and i know i’ll get through it, im starting to change for it to be over. its not like you can change your lifestyle. suicide is just a cheat, dont cheat. if you really want to live with out pain and stop all of this. then stay alive and make that change. because if you just kill yourself, your just gonna let everyone else suffer, thats pretty selfish, i dont mean to sound likea ***** but im trying to make a point and show a different perspective. i might not make sense but at least im trying. so just drop it and let us help you get through it.

well, getting in trouble is just gonna cause more sh it for you, try to start out small, find local places that you can just do a little bit for them or try to do good things and some oppurtunity might pop up, just dont give up and keep looking, maybe ask your gf if she can help youi find a job

well, maybe you need to make her parents understand. i know they are jerks and ****. my mom is too, but im trying to figure how to get to my mom to understand. if i find away i’ll let you know . hope you and your friend make it through

your welcome dcb_707 :D… and the person above me… is that a lyric from panic! at the disco? lmao :D

dont worry, im sure shes just with a family member or friend, my momo does that all the time, me and my mom used to fight so much and when i was younger when my parents were together, and my dad would hurt her so much, she would be gone for days til she was ready to come back. you’re gonna be alright. just dont do drugs or anything to hurt yourself, hide the drinks from your parents too, its what causes more problems

happy birthday 333

last time i clipped chesters wings it didnt go well lol. he just moves to much im afraid to hurt him so i take him to this lady down my block that is a pro at it.

i know birds are meant to fly but, when i used to bring him outside he never went anywhere, i think my mom must have scared him while she was sweeping near the cage, hes scared of the broom.

thank you, i know that things will get better and stuff its just that it hurts so much, im so scarred of passing out, but no one is home or online that i can talk to, they are either grounded, working, or away for the weekend. my family wouldnmt help me anyway, they are all so stuck up and wouldnt help me anyway they would just say things that will just make me wanna hurt them like they always do =/. i know hurting others is not the answer and im not going to but thats what it feels like, but id never hurt anyone. ive tried talking to my mom about our problems but all she does is change it around to make it seem like shes the one suffering when i have problems too but i never take it out on anyone. i reeaally hope to see chester again, i hate that it hurts so much.

hey, just thought id post to stop by and check how things are going with life if things have gotten better. i hope so! 3

i think you feel something, you feel worried right now. at least thats what your post sounds like you feel.

maybe it could be something, but maybe it might all be going to your head. i would say ask a professional.

maybe your best friend will grow out of it, probably a phase but i think you have to think deeper and harder on ways how to convince her how important this is