p.kin's reply history at Help.com

hey i’m not saying it as it was read what i’m saying is this yes it is a help site and yes you can get support no problem but you can also say things like i’m not thinking of him now i’m talking to you etc which can send a wrong impression what i mean is if you after advice get advice but there is no need to totally confide in someone else that deeply the problem with this world is that were all to willing to have deep conversations with total strangers and not with those closest to us, the effect of that is we grow apart from those close to us and then further engrossed in this impersonal way of talking where we can be anything we want to be and that usually leads to us not being ourselves if you love god the way you say then remember the love of the lord and start maybe thanking him for taking this man out of your he obviously didn’t love you the way you though he did and lets say you had spent 10 years with him and then found that out you would feel worse than you do now, your children were probably thinking of you when rejecting him and your well being so for that to you can give thanks if you love and follow jesus it’s a walk of letting him have his way to do whats best for you and in that know what the future holds and protect you from it so turn your mourning into dancing thank him from whatever he has saved you from with this man, as for young man you can’t rationalise love as a word and work it out with your mind it is a gift from god that you able to both give and recieve but also this is an act of faith and sacrifice towards the one you love, love is natural so be relaxed in it you may get hurt but then if you do bear in mind that there others out there who won’t hurt you also 1john 4 verse 7 says God Is Love i am not attacking either of you i am trying to show you that these places can and often do become a snare an addiction if you would and stop us talking to eachother in the shops at the bus stop etc. take care you both and remember that jesus loves you and so do i hope you both relax and in that find peace.

hope you see what your doing here look at your messages your all of a sudden flirting and chating openly with ivazpod and rejecting other things you are asking and recieving advice from a young 17 year old who doesn’t even know love is talk to jesus love cause all your doing on this website is asking everyone else for advice but him this lad is in a relationship allready and he is now talking about that with you would his girlfreind like that i don’t know but what i do know is that tonight when you go to bed will you be thinking of them or the one who has allready shown you he fulfills everything you are looking for from the one who loves you cause when all is said and done thats what matters cheer up darling and stop selling yourself short you don’t need another man you need to be in a position to get yourself strong and independent and then you will find one that truelly values you god bless

you’ll be fine girl stop feeling sorry for yourself it won’t help you want this man back be strong if he’s used you to feel better then chances are you used his issues to mask your own you will find peace in jesus ask for help then recieve it stop trying to feel it happen or waiting for some awesome event start walking head high shoulders back be at peace stop showing aggression or weakness to your kids be understanding of there grief and also the example there father set that hitting you and shouting at you made you do what he wanted lay hands ion your kids when they sleep and then claim the power of the blood of jesus over the effects of generational sin in their lives break the curse that there father put over your house, then ask the holy spirit which jesus promised he would send to counsell (come alongside us) us, listen this is it fight woman for your family you been taken rubbish for so long you feel worthless and of no value or significance well Almighty God who crweated the heavens and the earth loved you that he gave his son in your place ,you are valued you are loved you are worth god’s own son, i pray holy spirit right now across the pond fill this woman with newness and lighten hetr load in jesus name satan i rebuke you and the curse of generational sin in there home and there relationships by the authority of jesus christ leave them alone heal there wounds. now sister recieve that and thank god for the deliverence or don’t thats your choice but if want victory you only have one choice stop being a victim. Your a royal princess your worth more than that amen.

i was like that 7 years ago going to prison in a real life and death situation either kill or be killed i tell you lonely heart that there are millions limey uo right no who feel the same but also millions are leaving those feelings behind by asking for help the previous caller is right trust jesus my sister he is in the buisness of changing people we do have to confess our sin obviously but jesus said come to me all you who are weary and heavy laden and i will give you rest, this experience with a true and living God Your creator is something only you can bring about so you have to ask him to help it will mean a life of renovation trials and sometimes dying to your desires (what you want to do is best etc) but i tell you he only wants whats best for you and your children, as you see your children being naughty thats how god sees us eventhough he loves us he cannot excuse our sin let him have a chance girl you have tried everything else do this before you give up and if notthing happens when you ask him to come in and change your life then quite frankly you havn’t lost anything your in exactly the same place your in right now but if he proves himself as real and gtrue as he did for me then what price can be put on knowing him who died for you so that when you die you won’t be punished for being naughty as your children are so are you , jesus he wants to give you life and life in all it’s fullness, he is awesome i’m now married 2 children great job because of him, now i’m not saying he promises riches or that youll never experience pain or grief etc cause you will iv’e lost to babies since following him but knowing him gives you the reason to live and he does promise to give us all that we need which is different to all that we want because not all things we want are good for us. In the bible a women meets jesus who has been married 7 times after a brief conversation with she runs back to her village and says “come see a man, who told me everything iv’e ever done” she then took the whole village to meet jesus i say to you come see a man who told me everthing iv’e ever done but even then still shown his love for me that he died in my place phisically so i wont have to die at judgment god bless lady stay strong and try jesus and see you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. x