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i dont know why he isnt taking anything, he needs to be. if i went to the docs with him, i would be accused of meddling, i cant step outta line with his mom. im already on shaky ground due to a mistake i made, which led to her finding out i used to self injure quite badly. i think she thinks im gonna try to get him into SI and make some sort of silly cult or something. little to her knowledge he has been SIing longer than me. just not as bad.
i would never want him harmed.

oh. and evansent, he is unmedicated :S

he is afraid that if he asks his mom or dad to take him to the docs, they will either ignore him, or get angry at him. i think hes being treated unfairly on account of being the older, ‘broken’ child. i have suggested trying for medication a few times but there is only so far i can push the subject.

yeh.

well drugs was defo out from the start. i know that schiz and drugs go hand in hand. and thats not a good thing.
iono ill try and find ways of helpin his dreams become lucid, meanwhile i shall stick to waking him up if he starts to make noises. (i cant stand hearing him have nightmares) but yish.

thing is dub, A. if i get him on marijuana, his mother will hate me even more. (for some reason she thinks im a bad influence even though i only want the best for him) he cant sleep because hes scared. its not that he physically cant, he just doesnt want to. plus. if i get him on drugs, it will only make the psychosis worse. and its bad enough as it is.

i was wondering if anyone knew of any techniques? because lucid dreaming is the most suitable thing i can think of to be fair, it would be good if i could help him do it

nar shelly maybe i got it wrong not the thing where theyre pinned to the bed because they cant move, the thing where u realise your dreaming, and u can control them.

evansent, he has some sort of psychotic disorder. the doctors say schizophrenia but i dont believe them, i think its a psychosis caused by bad blood flow to the brain, but thats my opinion. yes he has been treated badly, but his dreams arent memories, they usually consist of his best friends and/or himself being tortured, murdered, etc. i believe its brought on partially by stress. he doesnt sleep till about 3 or 4 am because hes scared to sleep. if anyone has an idea of how it workd thatwould be great.

best: compassionate, caring, loyal, friendly, understanding.
worst: sometimes bloodyminded, sometimes people pleasing. selfish, apathetic, oversensitive, attention seeking, spiteful, lazy, i could go on all day, wow im a ******* *****… not that i didnt know that already.

dude. you are so shallow. what the **** man?

have you noticed how he was so much more interested once he found out you were a kid?
scaaaaammmmmmm
dude. he asked a teenager for his full name and address. you dont do that if you meet them online. u send him money and your address, he takes money, and knows where u live. noooot in the slightest bit safe there. stick with ebay and amazon.

woah dont do that. if your friends walk over you, you need to tell them that you dont take that ****. its nice to be a gentleman, but you deserve to be treated right. just like everyone else. if someone treats you bad, i dont care how close you are to them, you tell them to stop being a bastard. because they will only learn that they can take from you, and they will push it further and further.

theres being a good guy, and theres being a pushover. my poor mate tom is a pushover and needs to learn some assertiveness. the way i see things, people dont get what they get because they deserve it, they get it because it happens that way, or they take it.
when it comes to women, i think women go for ‘dangerous’ guys because theyre fun. they sometimes feel that they dont wanna go out with the nice guy, cuz theyre too good a friend to lose.
rediculous i know. but thats how people work.
stay mr nice, but make sure your assertive and dont get walked over.

hes defo crossing a line there
tell him if he dont quit yall call the cops.
be assertive. dont let him do ****.

nah. just try to calm down. no need to get worked up. there are still other options

i was infertile for a short period of time, because i had polycystic ovaries, im not saying thats how it is, but its a consideration. usually u cant see a problem till u try to have kids. but i kinda noticed cuz i had absolutely no periods. PCOS does interfere with periods. like i said. im not saying its that but it could be
*hugs*

have yah been to a doctor to find out why u cant get pregnant?
also, incedentally what didnt work?

lol
dont go for someone if theres no spark.
jeez i did that.
biggest ****** ever.
didnt help that the guy i was with was mr angry god and im little miss dont want to do anything wrong.