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• I wanted something and poof, about 12 hours later it was there! posted (2 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I have a female hamster. And wanted a nest of little ones. So.. what I needed was a male hamster. …

• Are you a psycopath? posted (4 months, 1 week) ago
  ( this is a test, I am going to tell you a story.. and depending on your answer, you can tell weth…

• there’s me, and the person I want to be.. posted (6 months, 4 weeks) ago
  I like to think I know myself. And know what’s good for me. Like in the choices I make. But t…

• I’m falling in love! posted (6 months, 4 weeks) ago
  !!! and I don’t want to!!!…

• What are you doing this Saturday? posted (6 months, 4 weeks) ago
  I’m going out to dance.. :D…

• What’s your definition of LOVE? posted (7 months, 2 weeks) ago
  And is there pain in love?…

• what to do? posted (8 months, 1 week) ago
  Today is a bad day.. Had a great time yesterday.. went out partying and it was real fun! but 2day …

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Gillian's Top (3) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I’m so torn.
  

  What you need now, and want most of all is support right? Well, the person who can comfort you the best is your husband right!?
  
  Talk to him, and he will make you feel better. Starting a new life is always scary. Your family and friends are always a phone call away. Don’t worry.
  
  Be honest to you husband about your doubts. :)
  
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by misshockeylove

• (1 vote) I really really want to die.
  

  I think you should go get help. If you are serious about killing yourself. What ever you do don’t! Don’t feel alone, look how many strangers already care about you at this moment.
  
  Is it that you don’t feel understood?
  
  - written 10 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Laganwandere

• (1 vote) Hi.
  

  Reminds me of a beatles song; Yesterday.
  
  Feelings are very powerfull. Good or bad, they’re there to help you. Try to see who is realy hurting you. People often use eachother. These are not your real friends. And love? It’s better to be alone and happy, than with someone who makes you feel bad.
  
  Sorry for the cliche’s..
  
  - written 10 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by ~LazyDaze

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• am i too jealous?
  

  Well, it’s your own insecurety. Think to yourself why you don’t like her? What’s the worst case scenario that you think could happen when he is with her? That will be the idicator to you fear.
  
  Life’s to short to be jelous.
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• Am I selfdistructive?
  

  [quote theresape]If I were 21 and I had two desirable guys interested in me, I’D be confused, too–especially if one of them was a lifelong friend. Poster, I disagree with the guys who are implying that you are being calculating or manipulative. You are young and single and still figuring out who you are and what you want. Going on a few dates with someone does not mean that you have made a lifelong commitment to him. It’s perfectly understandable that you don’t know whether to hold on to the recently-established relationship or to explore the other. Maybe one of them is the love of your life; maybe the love of your life is someone you are going to meet in five years. Take your time, and don’t let anyone try to own you. When the time for lifelong commitments come, you will know.
  
  Good luck.[/quote]
  
  
  Thanks, That helps allot!
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• Are you a psycopath?
  

  ****, … so many people got it right! They let me sweat over this for an half hour! And I still ******* come up with it..
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

• Are you a psycopath?
  

  Well, not being able to comprehend killing your sister for pure self gain, means you have a conscience and other peoples ‘feelings’ are mostly on your mind. psychopaths don’t realy care about other peoples feelings, and are always busy with there own lives and what makes them happy. Because they are very intelligent, they are often charming and manipulating ( to make others do what they want.. )
  They know how people will react.. but just don’t understand why it’s bad..
  
  freaky huh?
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

• Are you a psycopath?
  

  I’ve told this story to all kinds of people. And nearly no one gets it right.. Accept for: One friend, My dad, brother and ex boyfriend!!! How Freaky is that!!
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

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