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Well, it’s your own insecurety. Think to yourself why you don’t like her? What’s the worst case scenario that you think could happen when he is with her? That will be the idicator to you fear.

Life’s to short to be jelous.

[quote theresape]If I were 21 and I had two desirable guys interested in me, I’D be confused, too–especially if one of them was a lifelong friend. Poster, I disagree with the guys who are implying that you are being calculating or manipulative. You are young and single and still figuring out who you are and what you want. Going on a few dates with someone does not mean that you have made a lifelong commitment to him. It’s perfectly understandable that you don’t know whether to hold on to the recently-established relationship or to explore the other. Maybe one of them is the love of your life; maybe the love of your life is someone you are going to meet in five years. Take your time, and don’t let anyone try to own you. When the time for lifelong commitments come, you will know.

Good luck.[/quote]

Thanks, That helps allot!

****, … so many people got it right! They let me sweat over this for an half hour! And I still ******* come up with it..

Well, not being able to comprehend killing your sister for pure self gain, means you have a conscience and other peoples ‘feelings’ are mostly on your mind. psychopaths don’t realy care about other peoples feelings, and are always busy with there own lives and what makes them happy. Because they are very intelligent, they are often charming and manipulating ( to make others do what they want.. )
They know how people will react.. but just don’t understand why it’s bad..

freaky huh?

I’ve told this story to all kinds of people. And nearly no one gets it right.. Accept for: One friend, My dad, brother and ex boyfriend!!! How Freaky is that!!

[quote j]So that She can see the guy again (when he attends the sisters funeral)[/quote]

Congrats.. you have a psychopathic mind. ( killing her sister to see the guy again is a pure selfish reason ) Most people need a emotional reason to kill there sister. ( like she slept with him or something ) But psychopaths only think of themselves.. and don’t realy have a conscience.

I’m not saying you’d kill your sister for something like that.. but it is an unusual way of looking at it. :) And remember.. psychopaths are often VERY intelligent people ;)

No.. what is the REASON for killing her sister? It is a psychopathic thing to do, but what WHY did she do it?

psychopath with a ‘H’ of course.. ( the shame!! )

Well, I’m not sure. When I was young.. I wasn’t realy the long blond hair beauty some of the other girls in my class were. But then puberty hit and it all came right.. ;)

I realized it was confidance that was the 95% beauty enhancer.. :D

But the mind? Ignorance you can cure with knowlege..

I have the same.. get enough attention to boost your ego, but still see all the flaws. Even Haley Berry had got insecureaties now and then..

I’ve kind of forgot about my looks, and I’m more hurt if people call me stupid now. Hehe.. is that strange?

Let the joy and passion for writing be your persuasion. ;)

Depression.. ain’t it horribe :(

Well, all feelings pass.. nothing lasts forever.

you can’t say.. wouldn’t life be boring if we knew that? Try to enjoy it :)

:) all will be revealed in time..