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fnanks to all who have helped. I really took your advice and have applied it, and will app;y t in the future. I wish you all the best.

yeah i agree with whiplas… takes a chance. you’re either going to get a yes or no…
if he digs you then at least you found out by acting upon it and not wondering for awhile,, ” i wonder if….?”

and if he doesnt dig you… well you still get an answer. and it may hurt. but at least you would have known. and trust me, sounds so cliche, but you will find someone else that does dig you and you are going to be like “what was i thinking”

just tell him.. not in a crazy way hahaha but you will never know if you dont try
:)

Hey Dan

I just read your very inspirational speech…
I have a lot of questions though.
I have been suffering from depression and anxiety since I was a kid. I do have a lot of anger issues. And I do like the idea of using your anger as fuel to go after what you want.
I have tried a million different methods and attempts to thinking positively. But it;s very hard to do that when you don’t believe what you are trying to tell yourself. I know it comes from me having very low self-esteem. But I do always think, I have a great support system,… a loving man, a great mom, and most importantly.. my son.. who is so wonderful to me. Yet, I stil find myself inferior, and not motivated enough to fight back. I feel as if I do try, I will fail. Even when I tell myself, I can do it I try and then,,,,. It seems as though I never get the result I was expecting. So I fall back into the slump. each time it gets worse. I’ve had a lot of “bad lcuk” I suppose. And that doesn’t help either. It’d funny because my boyfriend is the most positive person I have ever met, and he tried to help me so much. Everything from a shoulder to lean on, to tough love, to telling me what he does when he feels as though things are getting too hard… but those methods never seems to work. I guess I came here to see what I can do and hopefully find my way of reaching the positive thinking. It really affects me in everything I do.

I’m mentally exhausted…

hope you understood the babble hehe

im more than “lacking self-confidence”
i cant speak without feeling i’m an idiot, or not being judged negatively