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o_o; thats scary.

:) well that’s a start

:) good luck! remember that there will alway be people to understand you.

then on that case you should keep your job until you are certain about your feelings. you dont really have to date someone to get to know them. you could probably even talk over the phone… >_< it sounds very complicated.

not to discourage you, but yeah people usually look at you differently after you tell them things. but on the other hand (so complicated) maybe you will find out that the friend cuts themselves too or understands how you feel. or else thats why websites like this exist i suppose? to tell people your feelings and u wont be judged…

i see. D: thats not good. well then you should find a place to talk to him and the two of you should work it out. decide on your job, or him. if you truly love him and he truly loves you then it will become serious after you quit your job. and its ok to be nervous. just follow what you really feel. just ask if he truly loves you and will stay with you after you quit.

you should definitely tell someone. well, you’ve told everyone on here. so thats a start. but you should tell someone that will stick with u and help out. that would be the best choice.

Well, if you can’t talk to him on your job, can’t you go out on after work together? I don’t really think there’s a problem with that. or is there (i’m not familiar with these kinds of rules)

cutting might not affect ur brain, but it still affects you ): what happens if u cut urself too deep and bleed to death? i’m not trying to say you will but its just a weird example.

well if you can stand up to drugs, then you can certainly stop urself from cutting :)

well, why dont u just tell him all that? tell him that you’re sorry… or do u feel like u cant tell him those things because he’s too mad?

i found out she cuts. D: i’m a very perceptive person who notices everything about the people i care about, i guess. she got the idea from her mom D: as for myself, i have hurt myself on purpose but not cutting i would give myself bruises sometimes..

my best friend used to cut herself. she says i saved her life because i helped her get overcome it. and yes, if you dont stop it usually ends up leading to suicide. D: and you’re not a freak if you cut. if you have a trust problem, then you can find someone probably even on this website who will help you out personally. :) usually when i am sad i draw out my feelings. hobbies usually help a lot

well sometimes people fall in love with people who hurt them. dont ask why, they just do. D: if you have tried everything you can already then you should let her go. like how they say if you truly love someone, you will let them go and if they are meant for you, they will come back. keep moving on with ur life. and if she wants to come back to you later and you still love her, then you know it was meant to be :)

i think you should still communicate with her and confront her about what you feel and ask her what she really feels and why. if you still love her then you shouldn’t wait or move on. or else you will be waiting forever or never getting over it. D: best thing is to talk to her about it.