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• My girlfriends parents hit her and tell her to dump
  

  Tell someone in authority. Besides the physical damage, they are doing mental damage that will last all her life and impact her parenting role as well.
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago

• my fiance has many freinds.
  

  Well, I’m going to be the unpopular one on here and tell you that having friends of the opposite sex always ends up hurting the relationship. If it is friends you see together, that usually works out ok, but if it is guys she sees away from you it will just lead to problems, even if it is only jealously. I have seen this in some of my sibling’s relationships. I happen to agree with Chris Rock on this *smiles* I know that when I was in a relationship that I was kinda iffy on, I looked at a few of my guy friends as a backup plan…girls will do this even if they don’t admit it.
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago

• Am I really that bad of a person and will i ever forget?
  

  Nothing anyone says can make you feel better over a situation like this. The only thing that helps is time, it sounds corny but it really does. Just try to believe that fate wouldn’t do something like this to you unless it would make you a better person. I am old enough to look back and see the reason for why everything bad in my life happened. It is just a way to nudge you toward the path you should be on. The times you will struggle the hardest or feel the worst is possibly when you are trying to go against what fate has in-store for you.
  Someone who would treat you like that is not the right person for you, you want someone who will treat and respect you like you do them. There are people like that out there, it just takes some looking to find them. Don’t let this bad relationship spoil you for what might be just around the corner.
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago

• How do i deal with a psychotic ex girlfriend?
  

  Hi and sorry you are having this trouble. My brother is having problems like this with his ex-wife. I believe that this person just gets off on drama. As long as you feed what she needs, she will not leave you alone. Downplay everything that you hear about her. ‘Who said that?’ Oh, her, not even worth my time. Anyway, about that movie we were talking about?’.
  In short, just cut off any and all communication with her and don’t even respond to things people are telling you about her. Once she finally gets the idea that she isn’t getting to you anymore (which is what she wants)she will move on to the next drama. It might take a while but she will move on to the next victim sooner than you think. I know it is hard to ignore someone who is telling lies to your friends but if they are your friends they will know that you are the right one in this case. Just be cool and don’t inflame the situation more.
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago

• iv been talking to this girl i met online a few month
  

  I think that the most likely reason she is not meeting you is that she might not look the way she has described herself to you. She may be afraid that when you see how she really looks, you won’t have anything else to do with her. If you are really in love with her and don’t care what she looks like, you should tell her this and maybe she will get the courage to meet you.
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago

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