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mare ki When you go though something like this you have to find yourself and put you number one before making your grand entrance back into the world.

Yes I am back with my husband. He seeked treatmeant in the beginning just to please me and try to get his family back. He relapsed 2 more times. I never fell for it! It woke him up finally when I sold are house and he got divorce papers. He had to hit rock bottom before he relized he had to do it for him and no one else! It is along process to get back to stability. Even know I get concerned when he has to take pain meds and we go to a get together were there is alchol. What help me though was going to nar anon it is awesome!!! It is free and they are every where!You might want to check it out! They make you stronger and they help you cope with your feelings and they never tell you once that Oh if you go back your that would be stupied or say he made a mistake you can make it work . They are there for you and to help you build your life with or with out him!! They teach how to cope with guilt trips he mihgt throw at you or anything like that! It is a hard road to travel. I am here for support if you have questions or just want to vent!!!-Mandy

The story of every womens life you are not alone!

It is all what you belive! I am more out to think of someones feeling then to stop and think what is right from wrong!- Mandy

Thank you guys any help is better then none thank you so much!!

I wonder all the time. We struggle! He has put me though hell our first part of our relationship. we have been together for about 12 years all together. I still cant figure it out going on 12 yrs and 2 children later????!!!!!!! It has been up hill battle the whole time! I guess that is a relationship just a battle that when we are old and gray we will understand!

How and every thing I see cost money to start or you have to have skills. any idea where I could start?? =)

When I was young I did the same thing I even hit rock bottom and tried to kill my self. Trust me killing yourself is not the easy way out. It will not change anything but bring more hurt and more problems on you! Your family loves you they just want you to try and do right! Everything you do and everything that happens to you it is a stepping block to becoming the person you are meant to be! So keep on tring and show them that you do love them and you want to work things out! Suicide is very selfish and honestly not even worth it! Here to talk any time!!-Mandy

Tell her to go to the humane society and speak to the head honcho there!! They should help her!! That’s what they are there for. Is to help animals that need help and owners that love there pet but can not afford to give them proper medical attention when it comes to surgeries.

I am now 33 weeks on total bedrest. My husband got injured on the job 3 months ago. We are having to fight the insurance company by taking them to court just to get the surgery he needs and benefits. So he is out of work we are living with my parents now with our 3 yr old. They are paying our bills and making sure nothing gets taken away. I was just was wondering if there was anything or anyone I could contact to try to get help besides draining my loving parents! I cant stand having to have someone to support my family. I would love to be able to contribute something. I feel guilty while I am in bed my parents arew working just to keep all of us a float.

Hi would you like to talk about why you are wanting to be numb and why you miss your daughter!

the same thing that is my profile but it is ok I feel better just helping other people!! I hope i didnt sound rude!! Thank you for asking! -Mandy

betta is so right!! Please let us know to better help you!!!

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