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• My dad seems to be very irritable lately, but I’m worried there’s something medically wrong with him. posted (1 week, 3 days) ago
  My dad had heart surgery two years ago in March and his heart works at 30%. He does pretty well, bu…

• I need some financial advice for a friend. posted (3 weeks, 2 days) ago
  My friend is living at college this summer and working at a job on campus– she has very back-…

• What’s the episode or sketch of “In Living Color” where… posted (1 month) ago
  Jim Carrey goes into a restaurant, and it’s like the “overly confident gay man” b…

• Panicking, my girlfriend might be pregnant. posted (1 month) ago
  Okay, so about a week ago to date, my girlfriend and I had sexual intercourse– but accidental…

• So, I’m finally sure, 100% that I’m gay. posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  It’s taken me about a year now, but I’ve found out the total truth about my sexuality. …

• Could someone tell me what this person’s myspace is like? posted (1 month, 4 weeks) ago
  I’m trying to get onto myspace and my account won’t work to view their profile. Could …

• How to make or customize aim buddy wallpapers in AIM? posted (2 months) ago
  I’m looking how to do this and so far haven’t found any information. Help anyone? I wa…

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prettypouf's Top (4) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) What can i do to get out of depression
  

  First, start by realizing that everyone in life has their issues, problems and own crisis abroad. Check these boards, old topics, the archives and see how many other voices are going through a plank of pain the same.
  
  Realize then that the key to happiness, as has been said, is realizing you’re no different than anyone else. From there, think about this– how are some people happier? Optimism, my friend, it’s optimism. To stop worrying, to look at things in a sunny outlook and seeing the bright side to matters no matter what. Realizing the world will keep turning, and who wants to live a life of sadness? :) Find joy in any situation, that’s the key to defeating emotional depression. As for clicinical depression– therapy and medication.
  
  - written 6 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by Maximina

• (1 vote) Well, this is kind of complicated…but I just
  

  I say to stick it out and be strong, keep updated formally and frequently from him and just be there for him. You may not be able to take the place of his wife at this point, but if you show them you’re a very caring person who will be there for him, I’m absoultely sure he’ll see that light. I’m not sure how it will go, the most I can say is pray, and talk to him frequently, stay in close love with him and let him know your feelings. You realized the mistakes made by both parties last time in your last marriage, basically in all terms, try not to repeat the same mistake twice.
  
  - written 6 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by shiro

• (1 vote) Is it possible to TRUELY love a child as you own if it is not yours?
  

  A child is a special gift, especially in this situation. There may be a life of fun and glamour out there with guys, but maybe what should be done is meeting someone who cares for your child too at the same time. You automatically meet a good daddy and good husband in that respect if you find a man who loves your child. Look on the bright side of this instead of the poor side, because she’s going to be a light in your life.
  Honestly, I have a lot of respect for you for being young and caring for a foster child. Considering she dealt with a lot in her youth, and how she could have had it a lot worse without your help, you’re her saint and best friend I bet. If she’s legally yours ,I say enjoy the time while she’s young. If she’s not legally yours and she’s actually your mum’s or anything, I would say the best fit for this is to have away time as well like the above poster just stated. Relax, enjoy your life in those regards. It doesn’t have to be a shadow world and a light world, but live your life how you want to most of all and enjoy it so. I praise you for the kindness you’ve done in playing with her, she’s probably the happiest person in the world to have you. *big hugs* :) Good luck, I’m happy you at least spent so much good time with her, you’re an incredible person.
  
  - written 7 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by ...KeraMarie...

• (1 vote) uytvchfdsgsd nnnr
  

  Thanks a bunch! I hope it goes well! It doesn’t seem you’re shy of the experimentation right now which is excellent, just be happy and be yourself. :) It’s very lovely to watch.
  I’m gay as well and it’s just strange when you get those little butterflies over someone. :P Best thing to do is show those butterflies whose boss and go right up to the person yourself and say hello or start any conversation you can with them. :) It works wonders for friendships and relationships, and no matter what, you gain on this because you either get a new friend, a new experience, a new girlfriend or at least a good learning experience. Good luck!
  
  - written 7 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by oiurqopr

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• sometimes i get porn and put it on an MS Word Doc on
  

  Very interesting :P
  
  I have had history files I forgot to delete, but other than that, nothing has happened.
  
  I get worried about my magazines. 0_0 I’m a gay male and my parents know about the Vogue, W, Elle, etc. but if they found more. Sheesh.
  - written 4 days, 14 hours ago

• I need to borrow $10,000.00 as soon as possible.
  

  Why, I have 15 times that money.
  
  But I don’t give a cent until I hear a heartbreaking story, and believe me, I’ve heard a lot.
  After that, I need the honesty that someone will pay me back, and how often does that happen?
  
  I’ll give you a hint…
  
  0/10
  - written 4 days, 14 hours ago

• ~Shopping~
  

  Wal-mart doesn’t sell alcohol in PA.
  And I didn’t think it was too funny, I’m sorry.
  - written 1 week, 3 days ago

• My dad seems to be very irritable lately, but I’m worried there’s something medically wrong with him.
  

  Okay, thank you for your help. :)
  - written 1 week, 3 days ago

• My dad seems to be very irritable lately, but I’m worried there’s something medically wrong with him.
  

  Well, it’s kind of strange to say how it’s gone. My dad has always been mean towards my brother or sister– he never really disliked me or anything of that nature. He just suddenly has begun acted mean towards me.
  Take about 5 weeks ago I would say it began, it was before my grandma was in the hospital and he began doing this thing where if there were dishes, he’d mention it and tell me to do it without saying please or anything. I always tell him to say please then because I always say “please” and “thank you” for anyone, but he just says “go do the dishes in there” or “move that thing” or “go into the house and get this for me.” He never did that, he would always get it himself or be kind about it. My dad spends a very solidly alone and sedintary(sp?) lifestyle because he just sits on the couch mostly watching TV and he’ll take a stroll through the yard or a nap every once in a while, but he just is really grounded like this huge boulder in our house.
  Notable things are also that since my grandma passed away, my two uncles that were living there need to find out what to do and where to live, and my dad is pushing the idea that they should keep the house going even though we’re trying to convince him otherwise. He’s being a bit of an antagonistic character too, he called my uncle Danny and chewed him out for now having a job that could support that house, and he also swore at me and said the f-word, and that was the first time I ever heard him do it. I seriously can remember back to these things and think back to just a while ago and see a huge difference and I’m quickly losing respect for him.
  - written 1 week, 3 days ago

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