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• Is homosexuality something that can be reversed? posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  Hey guys– those of you who have been paying attention to the news may have noticed Michele B…

• Itunes question my new Ipod touch posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
  Hey guys I just got an ipod touch and now that I’ve connected it to the computer and started …

• Am I doing this right? posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
  (Ipod question) Hey guys– My wife has in Ipod shuffle she never uses– her library is o…

• I need your honest opinion posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
  Hey guys– I recently bought a winter jacket– it’s super warm, but I am debating o…

• Opening the NAT at my college for my xbox 360 posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  Hey guys! I’m trying to get onto xbox live with my 360 in order to play with friends but I ke…

• Ear infection– day 6– anyone know a good cure? posted (2 years, 11 months) ago
  Hey guys I’ve had an ear infection for six days now– I am fairly sure this is from swi…

• My big toe feels like it needs to pop posted (3 years) ago
  Hey guys I was standing next to my girlfriend earlier today, she was on a rocking chair, and my foo…

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prettypoufy_anony's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) i can’t handle life anymore
  

  Oh, there’s so much out there for you. Discover and find your passions and that is what will lead you forward. You merely have to have a desire, and if you think of that desire, you are going to achieve it and grow. :)
  
  - written 3 years, 6 months ago – voted for by stathio

• (1 vote) What can i do to get out of depression
  

  First, start by realizing that everyone in life has their issues, problems and own crisis abroad. Check these boards, old topics, the archives and see how many other voices are going through a plank of pain the same.
  
  Realize then that the key to happiness, as has been said, is realizing you’re no different than anyone else. From there, think about this– how are some people happier? Optimism, my friend, it’s optimism. To stop worrying, to look at things in a sunny outlook and seeing the bright side to matters no matter what. Realizing the world will keep turning, and who wants to live a life of sadness? :) Find joy in any situation, that’s the key to defeating emotional depression. As for clicinical depression– therapy and medication.
  
  - written 5 years, 5 months ago – voted for by Maximina

• (1 vote) Well, this is kind of complicated…but I just
  

  I say to stick it out and be strong, keep updated formally and frequently from him and just be there for him. You may not be able to take the place of his wife at this point, but if you show them you’re a very caring person who will be there for him, I’m absoultely sure he’ll see that light. I’m not sure how it will go, the most I can say is pray, and talk to him frequently, stay in close love with him and let him know your feelings. You realized the mistakes made by both parties last time in your last marriage, basically in all terms, try not to repeat the same mistake twice.
  
  - written 5 years, 5 months ago – voted for by shiro

• (1 vote) Is it possible to TRUELY love a child as you own if it is not yours?
  

  A child is a special gift, especially in this situation. There may be a life of fun and glamour out there with guys, but maybe what should be done is meeting someone who cares for your child too at the same time. You automatically meet a good daddy and good husband in that respect if you find a man who loves your child. Look on the bright side of this instead of the poor side, because she’s going to be a light in your life.
  Honestly, I have a lot of respect for you for being young and caring for a foster child. Considering she dealt with a lot in her youth, and how she could have had it a lot worse without your help, you’re her saint and best friend I bet. If she’s legally yours ,I say enjoy the time while she’s young. If she’s not legally yours and she’s actually your mum’s or anything, I would say the best fit for this is to have away time as well like the above poster just stated. Relax, enjoy your life in those regards. It doesn’t have to be a shadow world and a light world, but live your life how you want to most of all and enjoy it so. I praise you for the kindness you’ve done in playing with her, she’s probably the happiest person in the world to have you. *big hugs* :) Good luck, I’m happy you at least spent so much good time with her, you’re an incredible person.
  
  - written 5 years, 5 months ago – voted for by ...KeraMarie...

• (1 vote) uytvchfdsgsd nnnr
  

  Thanks a bunch! I hope it goes well! It doesn’t seem you’re shy of the experimentation right now which is excellent, just be happy and be yourself. :) It’s very lovely to watch.
  I’m gay as well and it’s just strange when you get those little butterflies over someone. :P Best thing to do is show those butterflies whose boss and go right up to the person yourself and say hello or start any conversation you can with them. :) It works wonders for friendships and relationships, and no matter what, you gain on this because you either get a new friend, a new experience, a new girlfriend or at least a good learning experience. Good luck!
  
  - written 5 years, 6 months ago – voted for by oiurqopr

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• Is homosexuality something that can be reversed?
  

  I think in a way that it is changeable– I’ve felt a lot of different attractions in life– it just depends on the time and place. Society has a role a bit… as does guilt I guess.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• Is homosexuality something that can be reversed?
  

  That’s one of the things about her though… I… ack… I don’t know why but I seem to like Michele Bachmann a bit. Don’t kill me for it but she has SOME good points at times and I feel at times, even though I’m a very staunch and strong supporter of gay rights, maybe it’s something that I feel ashamed of for the reason that it’s not natural for me. I feel that gay people should have every right for their relationships and that we shouldn’t bash them or say mean-spirited things about them (I’m truly the person who, if I’m with friends and one of them says something like “that’s gay” or “***” I’ll tell them to stop and consider their words). I just think that my sexual confusion in life has been caused by the fact that I distract myself too much towards pornography at times and maybe too much towards finding a thrill rather than dealing with actual people who could pleasure me and give me a real experience. My sexuality is kind of fluid in that way– I don’t know it because I have been sensitized by what I see on tv or through fashion. There’s a good and a bad side to it.
  
  As far as Christianity… I don’t know. I just deal with a dual side to me– I don’t believe in a god in the sense that most christians do but I highly respect Christians– I live in an area that very high Catholic, church-going people and it seems to me that they get along the best and they are the sweetest and kindest because they have a set moral guideline to go by. In a sense, I wish I could be like that at times because a lot of my actions are often immoral because I don’t have any light to look to when I’m feeling directionless. It’s just that I wasn’t raised with religion in my life.
  
  In a sense, maybe she is right on some social values– politically though- -I really don’t know. Her politics are strange and her idea of not raising the debt ceiling can be considered dumb (we’ll face a crisis that may put us back into a bad recession) or it could be brilliant where people will learn that we don’t need a lot of excess things to be happy and that we’ll learn materialism isn’t everything. I just don’t know… maybe I support her but I couldn’t both support her and support gay rights in a way. It’s a difficult thing and I don’t know how I really feel.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• Is homosexuality something that can be reversed?
  

  All through my life I thought I was pretty straight… around high school I started to develop interests that my other male peers weren’t getting into– one of the things I really found I enjoy is haute couture and fashion in general– a lot of the music played at runways and more are really fun for me. But… when it comes to displaying these likes in public, I get shy and timid and ashamed of myself and I feel that it’s something “wrong” unless I’m in the privacy of my own home.
  I’m married now and I’m not sexually attracted to women although I love my wife, I just don’t get turned on easily by women. I find models attractive but I don’t want to have sex with them– admire their beauty and the clothes they wear, yes. For men, I don’t know… I find muscular men to be good-looking but I don’t get a boner just over them, you know?
  I don’t know my sexuality and I feel guilty about the position I’m in. I can’t actually decide what I like because more of what I have is a fetish– sometimes fashion turns me on (the clothes women wear are attractive) but that’s about it…
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• I need to find a site to backup a 1.5 gig file..
  

  Try rapidshare– at the very least you can break it up on a drive
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• What is your thought/opinion on the state of California?
  

  Southern California all the way– it’s beautiful! The only thing I have to say is that taxes seem high at times and rent (in certain areas) in preposterous. It is the most beautiful state I’ve been in and I would live in SoCal forever if I could…
  - written 2 years ago

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