My name is
wil
Here to help with anything at all.
Hope I can help. ^^
Where did you grow up?
Welly, NZ
Where do you live now?
Welly, NZ
What's your favorite sport or sports?
Rugby, Tennis, Athletics, SKiing,
What kinds of jobs have you held? Industries too!
Hospitality
What hobbies are you into?
Art, Music, Singing
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wil's Top (4) Replies by other users' votesSome people say that it’s not the destination that counts, it’s how you get there. You’ve struggled to make things better for yourself, and yes, maybe all you’ve struggled for has collapsed, but find some purpose in your failure and turn it into an achievement. All you’ve struggled for has shaped you as a person. Make it shape you into a better person, sit back and reflect, the things you did wrong but more importantly the things you did right, don’t be critical, be REASONABLE. Fair criticism is good, and so its merited self-praise :)
- written 11 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by worthles
Have you ever thought of spending more time with your family? Your family will always be there for you, make them your grounding point in life, know that you can always fall back on them :).
Dump your boyfriend, no matter how much you love him you must leave him, he isn’t treating you right, and the more you let him do this the more it damages your self-esteem and makes you less of a person.
Start afresh I say. The suffering is hard, but so much harder when you can’t mind any meaning in it. Make your constant struggle with life a challenge and an achievement. You will ALWAYS be free to choose your stance towards suffering, and it will make all the difference. By making your suffering something positive, your can work from it to better yourself. Maybe you have made some mistakes in your life that have lead to your predicament, you must choose to accept that you have and will fail, only then can you move forward. The thing is, we all suffer and we all fail luv :). Its what makes us human ^^.
The meaning of life is said to be by many, meaning through life. In other words, your existence is to fin the meaning in everyday. Search for a sense of purpose, an existential commitment, and follow it :)
- written 1 year ago – voted for by kate
Okay, well in that case, just keep it nice and slow, take everything step by step. Rejection is something we all come across, so don’t let it hold you back! Maybe take notice to see whether he treats any other women in your workplace with the same enthusiasm? If it’s just you then there’s a good chance he likes you ^^
- written 1 year ago – voted for by msal71
Do you think that maybe, you only feel like you don’t have any good friends simply because you don’t share the same intimacy that you shared with your fiancé?
Ask your self why you are suffering, then ask yourself if there’s any purpose in your suffering. Find the meaning in your suffering and you’ll get through it I guarantee you! ^^
- written 1 year ago – voted for by chillout157