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wil's Top (5) Replies by other users' votesJust go in casual get up but rig up a few LEDs to your chest. Cool AND maneuverable.
- written 7 months ago – voted for by verge, ⓘⓝⓚ
So you say you really need help, but people mostly ignore you.
But you’ve ignored professional opinion and gone off your meds. If you feel ignored, imagine how it feels studying the human mind for 5 years and having your prescription ignored because your patient thinks s/he knows better.
If the professionals aren’t helping you, it may be because you aren’t telling them everything.
You also say your mother has bought into the story that you’re getting better, and that upset you.
Who made up the story? If you’re pretending you’re feeling better then you can’t be expecting her to read your mind and know that you need help.
If you want help there is a plethora of information available to you, either from professionals in your area, or on the internet.
See a professional and tell him/her everything. All the information you’ve provided her is invaluable to a professional. Including the perceptions you have about your illnesses (present or imaginary).
You can share all of this with a professional in confidence. It’s against clinical practice for him/her to share this information with anyone, and s/he is the most qualified to help you with your problems. Believe me, they didn’t study at university as hard as they did not to help people. Otherwise they’d be bankers. Give them the best possible opportunity to help you and they will.
- written 11 months, 1 week ago – voted for by windmills,, Zirbel
Really?
I’m pretty sure everyone is judging everyone constantly. I know I am constantly making judgements about people I meet, even people I don’t meet. It’s an innate reaction. However I am always carefully not to place unwanted emphasis on first impressions. Because statistically first impressions are generally false.
People will judge you wherever you go, whatever you do, and for whatever you don’t do, but the only people worth your time are the people who judge you fairly.
- written 2 years, 5 months ago – voted for by C.D., KelseyLynn
Don’t talk to yourself about broken pieces. Negative, emotive language isn’t helping.
You’ve identified her as a negative influence in your life, don’t let your feelings distort your reality.
Accept the damage she’s done to you and strip some good life lessons out of the situation, then move on.
Get busy, don’t give yourself time to feel remorse. Read a book instead.
She’s hurting you because you let her hurt you.
- written 2 months ago – voted for by moonlightsupper
An open and generous heart is a good thing to have, but others burdens are not yours to bear.
Don’t invest your emotion in others who will sap it from you.
Ruminating on what could’ve been serves no purpose. Think to your present and future and how you might influence them.
- written 2 months ago – voted for by AnExtendedHand