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• why cant i hold a conversation? posted (1 month) ago
  i never know what to say. im losing my gf of over a year partly because of this. no matter how hard…

• if i dont learn how to communicate with my gf that ive been with for a year, i am going to lose her. posted (2 months, 3 weeks) ago
  please help me!!!…

• i found a new website that helps me more than this one so i wont be coming here as much. posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
  since i have social anxiety, i needed a more specific site that would help and i found it. if you ha…

• i need reasons why there should be decriminalization of marijuana. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  im doing my research paper on it and need facts and statistics on why it should be decriminalized. …

• i think i have a problem with my brain. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  it seems that everyone else knows what to talk about or what to say, but i dont. its like nothing co…

• where can i download music for free and legally? posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  …

• whats one thing in life that you have learned from your experiences? posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  like, what is a life lesson you have learned? how has something in your life influenced the way you…

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undeveloped's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) NOT ANOTHER TEEN POST!
  

  to me, it doesnt matter what ethnicity you are. it doesnt bother me seein a white chick with a black guy, an asian with an indian, etc… people just dont want to accept what this world is becoming, people are so use to what it was like back then. before, races stayed with their own race, but now its beginning to change, thats how it was with blacks in america, before they were hated and unaccepted, but now its very common to see them, its like anything new that comes into our lives, we have to deal with it. its also like gay marriage, if it doesnt personally affect you, than you shouldnt say nething about it. like the only song by the Beatles that i like- “LET IT BE”. race shouldnt have anything to do with love. love is based on the physical/mental connection that you have with someone. im sure u dont, but to everyone else, dont listen to what people say about different races goin out. let them talk. there is always someone who is gunna tlk about you no matter who you are. do what you feel is right and dont let anyone else change how you feel!!!
  
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago – voted for by Hahaha123, qtdeedee0

• (1 vote) i sit in my bastement in the dark
  

  i know what its like to lose someone you love,
  ive felt the pain and its just way too much,
  i try to get you off my mind but yet i dont suceed,
  no matter what i do, its you i see with me.
  
  that kinda goes with what you said.
  
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago – voted for by jonass.

• (1 vote) Im having problems with my boyfriend we been together more then 3 months and we never have anything to talk about.
  

  did you tell him how you feel. communication is one of the most important parts of a relationship. trust is a big one as well. but anyways. when me and my ex started goin out, we never really talkd. we never had a serious conversation. you just need to get more comfortable with each other. ask each other questions.
  
  - written 3 years, 8 months ago – voted for by Car01ynbab

• (1 vote) Feeling like love is the only thing that can make you
  

  mike, thats how i am. im not the most outgoing person. im somtimes shy, and dont have that many true friends and dont trust people that easily. we do kno we need to change, but its hard. with me, my gf help me with that, because ever since ive been with her, i barely have any of those problems, other than the trust one.
  
  - written 4 years, 1 month ago – voted for by mike_jj

• (1 vote) im 14 years old every say im fat & stupid i go
  

  people will always continue to make fun of people, there is no way of stopping that. all you can do if reinforce the truth, that they are loved for who they are, even if they are over weight, or “not as good looking” as other people. all you can realli do right now is ignore the rumors and ignore what people say. they take advantage of you by knowing that you let what they say get to you. stand up for yorself and be strong.
  
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago – voted for by Eric.

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• im goin on a hike in like 3 hours and i wanna know what i should take.
  

  i think it was nice haha
  - written 1 month ago

• if i dont learn how to communicate with my gf that ive been with for a year, i am going to lose her.
  

  its only me whose talked out. but thanks. i really appreciate your help. ill try to cut down on how much we talk. i kinda told her that a little when we were talking before
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• if i dont learn how to communicate with my gf that ive been with for a year, i am going to lose her.
  

  thanks!!! i managed to talk to her for a little and if i continue to talk to her like i just did on the phone we wont need to take a break. we txt back and forth most of the day and either talk on the phone at night and like 1 or 2 more times throughoutbthe day or skype at night. i see her about 4-5 days a week. ill need to start preparing conversations or doing more or analyzing things we do so it gives me more to talk about.
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• if i dont learn how to communicate with my gf that ive been with for a year, i am going to lose her.
  

  she just said we should take a break…
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• if i dont learn how to communicate with my gf that ive been with for a year, i am going to lose her.
  

  she knows about my social anxiety but she says i dont care or else id be able to talk. that doesnt work for me. i CANT keep a conversation going and really cant think of what to say
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

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