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It sounds like you’re very intelligent, maybe you do things to distract your mind from what’s going on, but I don’t think you run away from your problems…you’re trying to work things out now aren’t you???
Please don’t let anyone tell you you are crazy or whatever…if anyone IS crazy, it is those kinda people like the ones you’re talking about. I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong, I just think the people you tried to be friends with are shallow and never gave you a chance…I know what you’re going through, when I grew up I started ’seeing’things and feeling and hearing things, and I did not know what it was…My parents always told me I was making stuff up, so after a while I started believing them and I started doubting myself. Now I know that I am not crazy, that I really see and hear ‘things’, and that it is them that are narrowminded, and are afarid of something they don’t know. Well, it took me 30 years to get where i am now.
So I hope you can work out your problems soon, talk to a counselor, or someone you really trust…one of your grandparents maybe? And yeah, having friends online is not the same as in person, but you’ll probably find out there are a lot of GOOD, non-judging people out here. Good luck, and I’m here if you want to talk.

I lived in Las Vegas for two years and I have been near area 51 a few times. I’ve heard some stories of people that lived there and one of my old colleagues had worked there…he was a very serious man, and I believe him.
Besides that, I’ve seen what I thought to be stars at first, move or fall and then suddenly stop or shoot up or down, circle around or whatever….anyways I’m not sure what they were (my fiancee saw them too a few times)but they surely weren’t stars, planes or heli’s….So I do believe there are different life forms…
I KNOW there are ghosts and spirits…so why wouldn’t there be other lifeforms…
They’re probably smart enough to stay as far away from us as possible because they probably know that humans are so very good at destroying whatever they find…

I asked for people to give me advice, not to cut me down.
The business is profitable (they had an average of 91,000 US$ PROFIT, for the past 6 years, I don’t call that nothing…). And they’re selling because the man needs surgery and rather has this done in Europe instead of central america, and he wants to do the recovery there as well. So I guess that’s a pretty good reason, another reason for someone to sell their business could of course be that they want to retire…But I guess that never crossed your mind.
I can afford a loan, but they won’t give it to me because the business is not here in the Netherlands…And my divorce was costly, yes, for two reasons: I was married to an american and he’s overthere and I am here….he did not cooperate, so the divorce took us one and a half year to complete. And second: He’s an alcoholic that goes in and out of jail and doesn’t keep a job for long. I have a very good job, and besides that have my own translation agency….so he got half of everything I had, while I’ve been taking care of our daughter for five years and he never paid a dime for her.So maybe you should ask people more about themselves before you start judging them or draw wrong conclusions.
How nice to meet you! So how are YOU doing?

May I ask what the vet did with him now? If he did not close the wound in some way, the cat would bleed to death wouldn’t it???
It’s not like he can put a band aid on him. Why don’t you call other vets, and tell this one to go to hell. Did he become a vet to help animals or just for the money?? What a @#^#!!*^… Can’t you try to go to the animal shelter? They mostly have vets they work with that will help the animal for not so much money (c’mon, sowing up a leg does NOT cost 500 US$…this guy is ripping you off I tell ya.)
And maybe you can work out monthly payments for him.
Also: try selling stuff on ebay, explaining your situation, there are many people on there that would buy from you for the good cause.
I hope you will manage to find a way…

I agree with Tricky.
Unless you’re not sure about how you feel. Is there a way you can talk to him? Tell him you’re not happy, and why you’re not happy…if he loves you he will do anything to try and make you happy, and change whatever you need changed.
But again, you can’t just stay with him because you’re afraid to let him down, if you stay and leave him later, or treat him differently because you don’t love him anymore, he will be hurt even more.
Don’t lie to him, but more important: don’t lie to yourself.
Maybe you will get a lot of trouble now, but in the long run, you will have saved yourself, and him even more. If you truly don’t want to be with him, then you have to let him go so he can move on with his life!!!

Hi,
if i may ask, what is it you’re not happy with? the house or your boyfriend?
And about the letting people down: you should do what makes you happy, you can’t just live life making other people happy.
You live life for yourself, and if you’re not happy, your boyfriend won’t be either eventually.
We don’t live so far apart…so if you ever feel like talking, I’m here.
I’ll send some positive energy your way.
Love
Miriam

Hi,
I’m not sure if I can help. But I am willing to listen…
I’ve been through phases like you, and I know you feel very lonely, but please don’t give up, there are people like you, you are not alone, and I know you’re worth to get to know…So please talk!

Hi,
The VET should get his head examined and go back to school!
There are three things that are VERY bad and unhealthy for dogs:
Porc, Potatoes and CHOCOLATE!!!
Please don’t give your dog chocolate, a dog can even die of it, and it doesn’t really matter how much you give him or how big the dog is.
I have a five year old daughter, and she likes coffee and coca cola, but that doesn’t mean I give it to her….I don’t, for two reasons: It’s bad for her and because i love her!!
A lot of people give their dogs whatever they eat for dinner, which results in the dogs getting fat or get all kinds of diseases…A dog should get only dog food, and or fresh meat like poultry (uncooked) or beef. In the next link you can find a lot of helpful info on food for dogs. There are a few treats you can give a dog that doesn’t hurt them.
http://www.healthyhappydogs.com/DogFood

Hi Karol,
can you please contact me, I would like to ask you something about this.
Please contact me at misslasvegas at home dot nl
thanks
miriam