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i know what to do to change the things that i dont like in my life and my relationship, they go in hand in hand really.
its just having the confidence to put things into action and make the changes that need to be made and going the right way about it.
i just have to decide if the things i am goin to have to sacrifice will be worth the gain? but how do you really know?

i know that my life isnt as bad as the way i feel right now, but just sometimes you think ‘whats the point’

so how do we change our state of mind then?

thanks alot i approciate your comments!

yes i know im trying so hard to distance myself , but its so hard seeing the people you care about gettin hurt, im really close to his paretns aswell, i was close to them before i was him, obviously i want to spend my life with him, but i have so much love and respect for them that i dont think i could just walk out, they’ve treated me like family and thyeve been so good to me, i know what i should do for my own piece of mind, but i just cant help but want to help, i think im just putting myself into a situation that i can’t win, i have to get a bit of confidence and do whats best for me, its just going to take some time

aww you poor thing, how old are you both? i’ts not fair that they wont let you be together especially if they don’t know you any not willing to give you a chance and what is there reasoning for this except for that they dont like you? and how does your boyfriend feel about the hole situation? is he trying to contact you or see you?

dont worry its not so bad, i feel like i’ve lost my mind aswell

yes i know, we do communicate, but at the moment, he has had a massive falling out with his parents (who i work for and who he use to work with). so im stuck in the middle of it all. they all talk to me about it and ive got the point where i just cannot handle it anymore, and i try and exclude myself but it just kills me to see them all hurting, so every time i see my partner we end up talking about it and he gets upset and i end up angry and we just end up fighting because of that, and then it makes work hard coz i get angry with is parents, i feel liek im just stuck in the middle trying to help them, and its killing me, i dont know, its awfull, i want to take some time off work just to be on my own for a couple of weeks, but we are just so busy and the timing is just so bad, but i just feel if i just left them to it for a while, they wont have anyone to talk to any eventually they will have to talk to each other. i dontk now if im explaining any of this very well, but i just want to scream!!!!!

becauase people expect too much