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• I really do not understand why taking one’s life has become the way to deal with life’s difficult situations. posted (3 months, 4 weeks) ago
  Is it that we have become so far removed from each other that we, as humanbeings cannot talk to eac…

• Listen, I have had an extremely busy time over the past few weeks, So I have not been able to come to this site as often as I would wish. posted (5 months, 3 weeks) ago
  So please forgive me. I think it is going to be quite a while before I can come more regularly. …

• Hi fellow helpers, I am been away for while and I am wondering if anyone can give me up-date on what has been happening while I was away. posted (6 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Any Good News welcomed!!!!!!…

• My brother stays with me while he works in town and then returns to his girlfriend. posted (8 months, 2 weeks) ago
  The problem is that he is using my computer to download stuff using tarrents. That what I think it…

• Help! posted (8 months, 4 weeks) ago
  I have mice! They have just started to come into my home. What can I do? euckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!…

• I have spent the majority of this week soul searching as the New Year is almost upon us and I have come across this website which is proving enourmously posted (9 months, 2 weeks) ago
  have spent the majority of this week soul searching as the New Year is almost upon us and I have co…

• I am seriously thinking about this coming new year and would like it to be meaningful and lovefilled. posted (9 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Not just another year that has passed me by. Is anyone else thinking the same? If so, any experie…

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Sanni's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Hi there.
  

  It is a tough time is’nt it. Someone sent me an email yesterday and it was about carrots, eggs and coffee. All of these were placed into boiling water. The carrot became soft, the eggs outshell remained intack but inside became hard and the coffee beans flavoured the water and made beautiful coffee. I thought this was wonderful and taught me a little lesson about how we respond to situations. As for me asking right now that I can be like the coffee beans and flavour the water. Stay Strong Courtybubble, these are my words of encouragement to you and myself.
  
  - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by Ditzy

• (1 vote) I spoke to my counselor the other day and she told me to keep using “those coping strategies” but I don’ know what they are.
  

  I think the best person to ask this question is your counsellor. Obviously they are seeing your mechanism for coping. Sometimes another person can see things about you that you cannot see. I think it would be really useful for you to have their observations. I hope this helps.
  
  - written 6 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Puck You

• (1 vote) nothing new, except that ive learned what doesn’t
  

  Please tell someone. You do not, I repeat not have to go through this alone. You have the right to feel safe, protected and to live without fear. The consequences of not doing anything can be so harmful to you emotionally in the long run that it doesn’t bear thinking about. So take courage and tell someone.
  
  - written 8 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Ireland-1

• (1 vote) how can i not be jealous its, hurting my relations
  

  Jealousy usually comes from insecurity about oneself. Perhaps the answer is to work on yourself to increase your self-esteem.
  
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by spiritedsoul

• (1 vote) A call to Christians!
  

  One more point, I have not read in the bible that Jesus said let’s start a War, or blow up buildings or let’s rape that women or kill that child. Or start a crusade. Jesus said love one another as I have loved you. It’s mankind who is doing the killing and maiming in the name of God. And taking the name of God to justify it all. I think we really need to remember that. One of the biggest delusions of mankind is hurt another human being in the name of God. This, in my view is caused by not reading and understanding the Word of God. For me this is where it all starts, reading, understanding and applying the Word of God.
  
  - written 10 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Ditzy

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  Wow, I have been away for a while and I find this in my invites, how lovely. Thanks Thep.
  
  What would a relationship with God be like.
  Well he gave me somewhere to live, and it is a wonderful place, sometimes it rains and sometime the sun shines. There is air to breath and food to eat. He also gave me companionship, lots of people to talk to and to be with. Some people I am closer to than others. He is a small still voice that speaks inside of me, offering words of encouragement and words of wisdom. Sometimes I get a little telling off when I do not listen. His energy revives me when I am low and when I am OK. He is the light in my soul. He gives a lot and I take a lot. I don’t always get what I want but I always get what I need. He moves events around in my life and places me in the right time at the right moment. It always works out well. Thats my God for you. So all I can do is praise him.
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

• Need Advice - Trying to find a reason to live.
  

  I think that you have got it. One day at a time, because I assure you that this moment will pass. There are other ways to have children, because there are plenty of children who need a loving home and will welcome you as their mum. Your husband when he comes will love you for who you are. There are plenty of men who will not mind about having children naturally. The important thing is to be honest with them and let them make up their minds. Yes, my friend one day at a time. Work on being the best person you can be to attract the best person to be your husband, please do not search for him, he will find you. Just concentrate on working on yourself and helping others. Grow internally and live your life as best as you can. Seize the day and in time work on your faith, because God only wants the best for you. I wish you peace, joy and happiness.
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

• Need Advice - Trying to find a reason to live.
  

  You doing the right thing by going to your doctor. Hopefully the doctor will be able to find out what is wrong. It is difficult to find out that you cannot have children. But you can still have a husband. But before all that happens there is something about healing your life and mind. Developing a positive attitude and loving yourself. You are more than just a body…….. I was thinking deeply about the eye excercise and what can to me is to say to you that you are more than just a body, my friend.
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

• Need Advice - Trying to find a reason to live.
  

  Presently, you had fun at the circus,your stilling living with friends in the house that you are in now, I am assuming your healthy enough to work. Being paid more at work, well join the cue on that one. What will happen next ………… what do you want to happen next, that is the question?
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

• is it I, Lord?
  

  To God be the Glory, Most Excellent, Most High. He is worthy to be adored. He is the Light of my life. The author and finisher of my faith. My soul doth magnify the Lord and my spirit praises his name. I thank you spiritwithin for the confirmation of the most excellent God that I serve. Peace and Love.
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

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