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• I have a hard time trusting people. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  I have friends, but I seem to feel let down a lot. A lot of people seem so self-centered–lik…

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Leap's Top (3) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Are all breakups as hard as the first?
  

  First true love is terribly hard. I dated for 10 more years after my first. Nothing was as hard as that first one. Take heart!
  
  - written 10 months ago – voted for by Hi_Sai

• (1 vote) Ok, one minute im totally happy and i act very extreme and hyper.
  

  Go to your doctor and tell him/her what you said here. It sounds like you might be bipolar. My sister-in-law had that, and did end up killing herself. Please get help.
  
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago – voted for by bullet.valentin

• (1 vote) Im female, 45 years old and Im fat.
  

  Try to be honest with yourself about whether you are eating to fill an emotional emptiness. Usually people are “addicted” to food because it simulates feeling good for a little while, but the problem is that it can either numb you–like a drug–or you think you feel good, and then it makes you feel worse later. Is there some emotional baggage you could work on that would help lead you to a healthier place?
  
  - written 2 years ago – voted for by Grego

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• is it possible for a 25 year old and a sixteen year old to have a meaningful romantic relationship?
  

  If the 25 year old wants to be on the sex offender registry their whole life. Not advised.
  - written 4 months ago

• I’m extremely depressed, can someone talk to me?
  

  Using a little psychology, what if you said to them, “Mom and Dad, I must have done something to make you distrust me. It seems like you are afraid to give me some basic freedoms that most of my friends have. Is there something I can do to prove to you that I am a trustworthy person, and maybe start having a few more freedoms?” (Even if you haven’t done anything wrong, that will seem like a mature way to approach it to them) Just remember that sometimes parents are afraid of losing control of their kids. They are afraid that you’re going to go do something that will mess up your life. Show them that you’re not the kid they are fearing you might be.
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• So, I’m going to be a first-time home owner.
  

  As a rule of thumb, most people only want about 1/3 of their income going to a mortgage. Making $1000 a month at this time, it may be hard for you to buy something in a safe neighborhood for that amount. Do you think you could work on increasing your income and saving first for a little while? Then you could have a downpayment as well–which will help you get the best deal.
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• help me !
  

  Here’s a link that might help.
  
  http://www.top-hair-loss-remedy.com/alopecia-totalis.html
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• i dont think i love my g/f.a couple of other girls are attracted to me,smile at me and make those eyes at me,and i in turn am attracted to them.
  

  Break up with her. I think you know that staying with her while having these feelings is wrong. If it’s a bad choice, you will miss each other a lot, and may have a second chance in the future. In my opinion, you’ll probably move on. You’re not married, so it won’t be as messy. (no kids, right?)
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

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