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• Hello all. posted (2 years) ago
  This is the first time I have ever done this type of thing, but I am at wits end! My wife of under a…

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• Hello all.
  

  Well Thank you all for the advice, I am updating this post because as of today, Wed. Nov 22, 2007 my wife has made the decision that our marriage is over, we are through, and she was even asking her friend when the least hurtful time is to remove her band from her finger, yes, I am devastated, but what can I do? I guess she feels she can find happiness other places than here in our home, with our family. Good luck and god speed baby, I love you with all of my heart, but I guess I have to let you go, with hopes you may return before I start a new life with someone else.
  
  Oh well, until then, good night, good luck and happiness to all.
  - written 2 years ago

• Hello all.
  

  I am at a standstill in everything and aspect of my life, I am really depressed at this point, my wife is really happy and really angry and really besides herself daily. The changes often occur within minutes. I really love her, and I really want to try and help anyway I can, her behavior has become reckless, her style has become careless, and quite honestly, everything has been done to tear us apart short of infidelity, and I really don’t want it to get that bad that my wife feels as though the only true pleasure she will get is from another person. WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE!?!?!
  - written 2 years ago

• what’s a nice bed-time book that you would recommend
  

  This is a classic but I think you may find it enlightening and a fun, relaxing read, its something that I feel to be a staple in my collection of book on my shelf, Jack Kerouac - On the Road.
  
  “On the Road” is a novel of experience; it tells tales of madness played out by all kinds of strange characters, in settings as diverse as a Virginia small-town diner, a New York jazz-joint, and a Mexican whore-house. What connects these adventures is the characters’ refusal to miss out on life,and their determination to get the most out of now. And best of all its only like 320 pages long, check it out, I think you will enjoy the feeling the book gives the heart.
  
  Peace!
  
  (Sorry this is a post I felt belonged in both this one and your other post I replied to , its perfect for both situations! Enjoy!)
  - written 2 years ago

• what to do when you’ve lost the will to win?
  

  This is a classic but I think you may find it enlightening and a fun, relaxing read, its something that I feel to be a staple in my collection of book on my shelf, Jack Kerouac - On the Road.
  
  “On the Road” is a novel of experience; it tells tales of madness played out by all kinds of strange characters, in settings as diverse as a Virginia small-town diner, a New York jazz-joint, and a Mexican whore-house. What connects these adventures is the characters’ refusal to miss out on life,and their determination to get the most out of now. And best of all its only like 320 pages long, check it out, I think you will enjoy the feeling the book gives the heart.
  
  Peace!
  - written 2 years ago

• Hello all.
  

  I am not pointing fingers, she is doing it to herself, I am just at a loss of ideas, I guess rmrose is right, I did smother her, I didnt have a social life, I am just now getting back out and trying to do things and have fun. I guess I am going to have to try and mend things on my own, my wife is oh so hidden and cold, and will not talk to me at all, there are moments when she sincerely wants to talk to me, but after two minutes, she is done and back to disliking me again. Its a scary world I am living in, but I will survive… for now.
  - written 2 years ago

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