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• Word document problem… it’s in that mode where you can only make corrections, like a teacher? posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  So instead of being able to write in it, it puts a note in the margin that you want to insert somet…

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• (1 vote) im gonna kill myself when…
  

  It’ll be okay, really. I know how awful that feeling is, though, i had it all through high school, and I’m in college now and I still get panicked thinking about grades!
  Sometimes it helps to prepare people. You could say to your dad, ‘Ugh, school is so stressful this semester. I’m so worried about grades, but I’m trying to work really hard.’
  And yeah, he might be tough on you, and it might suck, but you’ll get through it. There’s always another quarter or semester to bring your grades up, and remember: in like 30 years neither you NOR your dad will be able to remember what grades you got!
  (You’ll be too busy being president, or winning a nobel peace prize, or discovering a new element, or writing a book…) :D
  
  - written 6 months, 1 week ago – voted for by issybelle

• (1 vote) I need help im inlove with two guys..
  

  I’ve always found that when you like two people and can’t decide between them, the best idea is to choose neither. Be single for awhile, re-discover yourself, learn about what makes you happy all over again, even if it’s just for a short while. Eventually you will know who you can’t live without. Also, it’s better not to try to date both or string them along till you decide.
  You will figure it out, don’t worry. Give it time.
  
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by emma_littlewood_

• (1 vote) im 17 years old and im gay i dont want to be gay i
  

  “If you notice it consumes their life, such as an addiction.”
  “There was a recent article on gays and breasts called something stupid like boobiesexuals or something dumb like that look it up for both men and women.”
  
  And I think you haven’t found ‘that special connection’ with any reliable source of information. I hate people who are rude online, so I’m trying not to be a b**** here, but you are clearly getting your information from biased sourses. I am someone who lives in a progressive area of the country so not only do I ‘notice’ gay people, but I am friends with many gay families. Happy, loving, normal, suburban gay families. Not all gay people are addicted to sex, as they are often depicted. The reason people think that the gay lifestyle is so dangerous or unhealthy is because it was so frowned upon in the past that the only way gay people could be themselves was through anonymous and often high-risk sex and dating. Now that it is more accepted, it is easier for gay people to live fufilling and normal lives, without being condemned by others. They are parents, friends, co-workers, and productive members of society. If society doesn’t mean you have to be pushed one way or the other, then why are you telling this struggling young person that the way he truly feels is a sin? Maybe he is straight, maybe he is gay, but he will find his own path, and the more open-minded society is, the more likely that he will have healthy relationships in the future.
  Please read the New York Times or science journals instead of articles about ‘boobiesexuals’, RageCade. I’m sure you think I’m as biased as you are, or that I’m just a bleeding-heart gay-loving liberal, which of course I am. But I really do try to read factual articles to back up my claims. And the point is that things that are genetic aren’t sins… it’s just the way you are. If you are an alcoholic, then yes, you should avoid alcohol. But that’s because being drunk all the time is unhealthy. If you are gay, then why avoid gay relationships? This sad world could always use more love.
  
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago – voted for by OliveOil

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• Ok i’m 5′2 and 110 pounds i need to lose 10 pounds help!
  

  Yeah, I can’t imagine why they would, unless they have some sort of medical condition.
  Listen, if you’re worried about being healthy, that’s one thing, excersizing and eating right is always good! But don’t talk about it in terms of losing pounds, that doesn’t make any sense.
  - written 3 months, 4 weeks ago

• Ok i’m 5′2 and 110 pounds i need to lose 10 pounds help!
  

  Why do you need to lost 10 pounds, did your doctor tell you that?
  - written 3 months, 4 weeks ago

• Is it polite for a girl to put an X in the message to a guy?
  

  an x?
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• I asked my crush out, but he couldn’t make it!
  

  try again, don’t give up too easily. you might as well put your pride on the line instead of wondering what if for the rest of your life!
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• There is this one girl, i think she might be the one.
  

  the only way to talk to her is to talk to her… it’s not as scary as it seems once you get started. If you’re nervous then plan it out. Ask her to hang out some time… it doesn’t have to be a date right away, but the more you get to know her the easier things will be. Ask her to skate with you sometime, or listen to music if you both enjoy that, or just go get some pizza with friends…
  - written 5 months, 1 week ago

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