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• How can i get rid of a hickey?
  

  I’ve heard if you comb it (with an actual comb), it helps space out the bruised capillaries… and then if you moisturize it and wear a turtle neck for the next week, it should be gone quicker
  - written 2 years ago

• I need advice….
  

  [quote })i({ ~LazyDaze]What do you cass as cheating?
  Is it a kiss with another person, sex, or a friend with an x?
  Most people have different views, just because he says he never cheated, you need to find out what his version of “cheating” is as it may differ from yours and for me cheating is also saying that they love someone else, but then for you it may not be.
  All in all I would think very hard about this situation and how it has only been 4-5 months, do you want a year, 2 years or a lifetime with constant situations like this?[/quote]
  
  Cheating is cheating… its going behind someone else’s back - either with words or a kiss or sleeping with someone…
  
  To have her on the side in case I gave him up is just ridiculous to me… I had my angst filled insecure years when I was younger, but not like this… I’m not unreachable - he had me completely.. i stuck by him, and STILL he didnt think he was in my league. Its like he never believed I was his… so he destroyed it by keeping her on the side.
  
  He hasnt been honest with me, but has never cheated? He is crazy. Lying about another woman because he is afraid to be alone is just as bad :(
  - written 2 years ago

• I need advice….
  

  [quote theprofessor69]Just in case it was unclear, I did break up with that person and a few years later met who is now my wife[/quote]
  
  :( Thank you for your words…. It does help. I know he is not the one for me in the long run, but it still does not take the pain away of what exactly went on. We were really happy for the time being… and to think I was betrayed… or that she was betrayed… we all were betrayed in the end.
  - written 2 years ago

• I need advice….
  

  [quote theprofessor69]He sounds very insecure to me. I agree that it might be best that you just walk away now before you invest more time with the wrong person. One of the most unfortunate things is how you apparently feel about this person. You can never help who you fall in love with.[/quote]
  
  
  I agree…. and I really do need to just walk away and never look back. I guess the reason why Im having such a hard time and why i want to know whats he’s feeling, is because it makes it easier to see him every day.
  
  I work with him. (i know, i know)
  
  I did this to myself and now I have to lie in it… but I never asked for THIS :(
  - written 2 years ago

• VERY SERIOUS QUESTION HERE…
  

  Its hazy today… :) Thanks for taking the cloud off from over my head. That actually finally made me smile.
  - written 2 years ago

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