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so i have a problem and i hear your open minded and stuff.
i really like this guy, like a lot. but i dont kno wif he likes me. he actually may know about it, because we flirt sometimes, but i doubt it…..what do i do? and the year is almost over so i wanna do sumthing!!

still no reply? LOL

Shame on me :(

Thank You for the help on my post it has really helped me and yes i guess your right so thank you, you have been an amzing help to me on this post of My Confidence.

My bad, I’ll wait now lol :D

Good answer and I shall wait for your reply then, like a good boy lol

Thank you for explaining, damn I got kinda worried lol :P

No email from you? :O

You’re so kind and I like receiving emails from you

So my emails are not junk? :P

I’ll wait for your reply :D

OOO, I just emailed you…ooops lol sorry

Hey again

Hey! How are you?

Thank you, I’ve gotten your email, I shall reply now :)

:P Why thank you, email me sometme so I can reply

grrr silly msn, whats your email address?

owww no msn? that’s okay I guess
my email address is nj_17 @ hot mail . co . uk

Well pin me down and stop me lol jokes, want my email address?

I’ve been ill since yesterday morning, but i’m getting better now, how about you?

Well I’m more than sure that there will be one lad if not more who will care that you live there :D

But Canada is a place that i’ve not been to, a place that someone would need quite a bit of money to get to and hey…you are there :P

Canada, I’ve been told is a nice place to go, as for England, yeah it has nice areas, but once you’re use to it, we all get like you and wanna see somewhere else

I live in England > Peterborough, how about you?

Wish I was one of thoes you could meet?

I dunno what to say about that, yeah other people on here more than one person can help you, but it is over the internet insead of face to face. Even though face to face should be better as you can see the feeling and feel the feeling towards other but then again talking in person could be hard to do too.

Yeah I guess, but I still find it hard to talk to people about myself.

OKIE DOKIE

You did, thank you.

Thanks for the advice.

Counseling people

22.

Yea, I should.

I don’t really know, I guess it just seems as if since I am not doing anything productive that there really is no purpose in my being here.

OK. Well, then…here I am.

:/

Well, thanks

I’m ok. A little depressed. But I appreciate what you said on my post the other day.

Hey! How are you?

It’s not always that easy for me…so I tend not to talk about myself anymore

damn lol come on now stop picking on me lol

It is my fault then, I choose to let things get to me, I choose how I react to things :(
Hope you’re alright :)

Thanks Mel,
Yes I am starting to feel better. I’m trying to work on managing stress and getting a few things done to move some off my “plate”! It is helping. My Mom is feeling much better. She had a couple of issues that were upsetting her and we finally got 2 taken care of. There are 2 more but I can’t only do so much at a time and hopefully we’ll have another behind us this week. Thanks for your kind offer of support and friendship. I’m sharing my story of cancer with the local news so maybe when it is aired I will post a link if available for friends who want to watch. have a nice evening! Hugs, Diane

Don’t be, but that’s why I don’t…wanna fall in love again. I’ve lost people who I’ve let close to me in more ways than one, and then the first time I’ve fallen in love look what happens

:D xxx
and I wish I could, but after moving away she shortly was hit by a car and well…you can work out the rest :(

Happy Easter

Thanks Mel! I hope you get better too. I didn’t think to stop the emails coming fromt that site, that is a great idea! It was really hard taking care of Dad and being the one there when he died. My Mom isn’t well so I’m going through some of that with her now and even though this is really hard what I am going through, I can’t resent having this time with her. She was very sick around my birthday this past February and I just pleaded with God for better timing and she started getting better. I’ll mark you as a friend if you are interested! You have a lot of good advice and if I can help you in anyway just holler. I try to get on this site once a day at least - just can’t spend a lot of time on the computer at once so take a lot of breaks.

Hugs,
Diane

I’ve tried, trust me I really have, but I find it so hard becuase of how close we were, how much she meant to me and the fact she loved me and I never knew until the day she had to move away.

Thanks, I actually have been really sick and didn’t explain that well. I was not talking about help.com but greedyorneedy.com where someone helped me set up a profile and make a wish. Then later I got a friend request which I asked someone to take care of for me. Apparently when she did, she spent time looking around the site and must having done some voting with my id and I started getting the meanest and rudest messages and comments from all sorts of people (hate mail). I was diagnosed with cancer in 2002 and have had a difficult journey with health. I’m overwhelmed from the last six years and just was denied disability even though I can’t hardly sit at the computer long and can’t work so I’m very stressed. I don’t have income, savings, retirement or assets left - no I have to figure out what to do with the debt. People don’t know how much it costs to be sick and I’ve had 3 majory surgeries since my diagnosis, lost my Dad to cancer, buried him on my birthday in 2005…. it has been one thing after another and no time to process. So all that hatemail pushed me over that edge with my health and I have been sicker since. I know my friends are trying to help me find sources of help but I wish it had not been done with my id. I’m still getting emails from that system that people are still posting messages and comments and my coping skills are gone. I try to hold on but days like that make it hard.

I have come across a couple of peole on help.com that were ’sarcastic’ when I think someone needs compassion but mostly I have found this to be a great place and have made some friends. I’m glad you told me what the post was amd thanks for asking if I was okay.

I have been “fighting” for my life for six years and I get tired. There is a difference between “surviving” and “living” and I live with this awareness from the doctors that life isn’t as long as we expect and I would just like a little peace and quality, instead of fighting. But now I have to fight for disability benefits. Anyway, that is my story. Thanks, Diane

4+ years, but as I’m weak…I can’t get over it and I don’t wanna get over it…I love her

Can you share which post you’re referring? Maybe I can go back and read what you read so I understand your concern with me. I’m not offended but just a little confused.