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• I am in need of help, really my family is. posted (2 years) ago
  last month i was taken to the hospital and it was determined i had a stroke, which i had figured tha…

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• (1 vote) What can you do about an elderly mother that plays “favortites” all the time between her children.
  

  Hey just be happy you have a mom, better to go through grief with her then to visit her at a cemetery. if you read what i wrote i wish my daughter was here and writing something about her mom or me her dad. just give in do what will be the right thing in your heart while she is alive. because you can no longer gripe or be angry, when she is no longer here…
  
  - written 2 years ago – voted for by Ezray

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• y Mum died and it seems that everyone thinks that I should be over it now or I should be strong.
  

  I am really sorry about your mom passing away, it is a pain that will forever be etched in your heart, just make sure all the great memories and times you had together, be out in front of the sadness.anyone who is loved and special to a person makes it so much harder to deal with it, but that will come. i hope this makes you fel better, but when i was in viet nam- seal team 2 1968,i was feeling ill and the medic gave me a shot of penicillin, and i had a reaction and was pronounced dead, now i did not believe in god,only my m-16 and killing the cong, now, i am not some brainwashed kid and regret killing anyone. but during the time i was dead i did go somewhere, no bright light but saw my dad, like some sort of astral body and heard my grandparents voices,i had never met or heard them but it was them, i was told i had to go back, i begged and said no i want to stay so serene and peace all around me, but back i went, woke up with the chaplain giving me last rights, so buddy your mom is somewhere, believe me. after that i refused to kill any more, and i was boooted out with a general discharge. so beleve she is watching over you, and this is for sure, since my short demise i have had voices warn me about things and they saved my life more than once, write if your interested and i will tell you about them. see my post is not because i need money because of my stroke or my wifes illnesses, as death is just a new home, the money is for my granddaughter,i do not want her to want for things until i can get back on my feet and work again., god bless you and every once in a while look up and know your mom is smiling down on you.
  - written 2 years ago

• What can you do about an elderly mother that plays “favortites” all the time between her children.
  

  Hey just be happy you have a mom, better to go through grief with her then to visit her at a cemetery. if you read what i wrote i wish my daughter was here and writing something about her mom or me her dad. just give in do what will be the right thing in your heart while she is alive. because you can no longer gripe or be angry, when she is no longer here…
  - written 2 years ago

• so first date with the wrong guy.
  

  You do what your heart tells you to do. Hook up with the guy that you think about, you might as well be with he who is on your mind, not someone else that you wish was the other guy. You found the right guy, don’t lose him. David
  - written 2 years ago

• What Is The Worst Thing You Ever Went Through In A Relationship & How Did You Overcome It.
  

  I was dating this girl for 11 months and things were not going real well, so i sat with her one night and said maybe we should part, going on with our lives, stay friends and maybe in the future we may have a second chance but if not we can always be true friends. she asked me to run down to the corner market to get some cigarettes, when i returned she had hung herself in her bathroom, left a note without you i do not want to live, so my friend if she is the one be happy and if not wait till she, the right one steals your heart.
  - written 2 years ago

• i really like this girl she dosent even notice me
  

  Hey bud, over come your shyness with words that will stay in her hear forever, these are beautiful, i would bring you the rain when your feeling so dry, always have an answer when you ask me why. bring you the sun when your feeling so cold and always love you as we both grow old, always be with you when you are feeling alone, and find the highway to get you home.
  - written 2 years ago

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