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• What exactly is a ‘Fae’? posted (2 weeks, 1 day) ago
  Are they similar to fairies…? Is it just another spelling for fairy? Haha, I have no idea!…

• Is it possible to fall in love with someone of the same gender, yet not be sexually attracted to them…? posted (2 weeks, 4 days) ago
  I don’t think I’m gay, I mean, I’ve never been attracted to the female figure an…

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• What exactly is a ‘Fae’?
  

  Hm, odd, I’ve never heard of them before. I’ll have to look into them as well just to try and get a better idea. :) I guess in the end it really doesn’t matter, I can always just make things up as I go I suppose. (It’s not as though this specific character is going to be used in writings I plan on publishing. More for my own entertainment. )
  
  Though I swear I read about something similar long ago in a fanfiction type of thing. Though lord only knows with fanfiction. It might have been an angel and a vampire, with the angels blood being poisonous…? Hrm…I don’t know. u.u
  - written 2 weeks, 1 day ago

• What exactly is a ‘Fae’?
  

  Perhaps I should have read over the Wikipedia page a bit more, haha. Thank you! Though the blood thing still confuses me, maybe I need to switch up my search terms a bit.
  
  Hello again, twod. :) For the record you didn’t offend me, haha. I never got around to responding on my last post.
  - written 2 weeks, 1 day ago

• ok, so i do a “scene hair” but it always go down no madder how much hairspray i use.
  

  My hair is the SAME way, so I feel your pain. D: But the way I see it, it’s better to have hair that’s too thick than hair that’s too thin…?
  
  But as suggested, try having it thinned out. That could help a lot, or try a different cut. Scene hairstyles, although generally the same, can by styled in so many ways that you ought to be able to find something you like that won’t require it to be spiked or lifted up via hairspray?
  - written 2 weeks, 1 day ago

• Is it possible to fall in love with someone of the same gender, yet not be sexually attracted to them…?
  

  [quote Saggezza]Here’s what I think is happening, and I hope I’m not overstepping any bounds or anything… You’ve been hurt, emotionally… And, deep down, it’s your best friend that you feel is hurting you. But, your rational side is telling you that there’s no good reason to express any hint of angre towards your friend. And, that’s where the feeling of confusion is coming from.
  
  The feeling of jealousy - and I don’t mean to be wierd here or anything - is actually how your conscience (sp?) is surfacing the angre you’re feeling.
  
  I’ll stop there, in case I’m way off… Am I way off?[/quote]
  
  I’m not sure if you’re off or not, your guess is as good as mine at this point.
  
  Hm…We did kinda talk about it though, I told her the whole thing didn’t set well with me. She has only been talking to the guy, N we’ll call him, for a few days over texts, and not long before the guys brother, B, had been trying to get her to be ‘a friend with benefits’. The instant B stopped trying to get at her, N stepped in and began ‘wooing’ her, telling her she’s cute and he really likes her. Then tonight they met in person for the first time ‘as friends’ to watch a movie and all that other stuff happened. Every time she tells me “I smell like him” or “My chest hurts from being touched” (Oh, and FYI she is a virgin, as am I, so anything remotely sexual is like foreign territory to us.) I just get…so angry and upset.
  
  So the jealousy could be anger, I was so peeved. But I was surprised when she didn’t get mad at me, she apologized and such…I don’t know, I am making it so much more confusing than it has to be… Perhaps I’m just being overprotective of my friend, like Archykins said, I might just be scared for her because I get bad vibes from the guy.
  
  I’m just rambling now, I’m sorry. u.u Ah…I don’t know anymore.
  
  [quote twodtwenty]Argh! Censored again!
  
  [quote courtybubble]yes, i spose it is, if youre asexual.[/quote]
  
  Can’t see myself yearning to cuddle with any of my guy friends in place of their girlfriends, (cuddling with some of their girlfriends in place of my guy friends, different story).
  
  The cuddling part is what makes it seem like there might be more to your attraction than platonic love. Maybe you’re just not aware of it.[/quote]
  
  That gets me as well…because I DO want to get close to her, not physically in a sexual aspect…just, the hugging and cuddling, it’s comforting. My parents never, ever were real big on the hugs and kisses thing. So I don’t deal well with physical contact. My friend and I, well, lol It’s stupid really, but we would hug each other goodnight, every night to try and get me used to hugs. But we don’t anymore, so I think I just might miss that sense of comfort that came with the hugs…?
  
  Though now that I read over it all it just sounds so ridiculous and borderline pathetic…heh. @w@ Sorry!
  - written 2 weeks, 4 days ago

• Is it possible to fall in love with someone of the same gender, yet not be sexually attracted to them…?
  

  @archykins : Oh I know, I have absolutely nothing against being gay. :) I should have said that. I do stand firm on the belief that it is possible that someday I could very well fall in love with another woman where gender wouldn’t matter to me, just the fact that I am having such a confusing situation with my best friend kind of freaked me out. XD
  
  But thanks so much for your reply, everything you said does make a lot of sense. I just can’t help myself, because she’s the only true friend I’ve ever had and we’re so close. We literally do everything together, she’s the sister I never had.
  3
  
  @allan_wilco : Heh, now I want to watch that one episode of Scrubs…
  - written 2 weeks, 4 days ago

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