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Nothere12
Chicago, IL, US
Nothere12's Top (3) Replies by other users' votes
- (1 vote) Why do women put up with so much from men?
The issue is more complicated than low self esteem. There are all sorts of other factors at work. People may prefer certain types of men subconsciously, because of familiarity. Like say a man is dependent on women because of his relationship with his mother, so he feels most comfortable with someone with qualities like his mother. For women it is the same way, given their own experiences.
Also, when a person attempts to break up with you, you will have a temporary incease of “love.” Basically, the breaking up process is followed with this feeling, which is why some people say they are still in love with someone after they break up.. because technically they are. But obviously the feeling doesn’t persists or isn’t very strong while in a stable relationship for some. Some people are addicted to the feeling of love from breaking up.
There are other things.. You know there are tons of books on modern psychology on this stuff…. I don’t feel like getting into it. Some of the theories don’t are obviously connected and etc.
- written 1 year, 11 months ago – voted for by sherryn - (1 vote) I’ve never felt so horrible in my life.
This is freaking ridiculous. Puppy love is like crack to you.
- written 2 years ago – voted for by MittensInSummertime - (1 vote) how do you find out who u really are?
Hmmm, I was hoping that I wouldn’t have to explain my statement.
You asked “How do you find out who u really are?”
You are already who you are.
You are who are you when you look for yourself, you are who you are when you aren’t looking for yourself. When you attempt to define yourself, you do not look for who you are, you are creating yourself. It essentially has to do with meta-cognition, frontal lobe activity, and ego perception. All of these aren’t passive and require cognitive focus to create yourself. Therefore you cannot find yourself as you find a ball, or a piece of candy.. or a twenty dollar bill.. Man, I wish I could find a twenty dollar bill.
Anyway, the point is each moment your existence is being created.
- written 2 years ago – voted for by Hope