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• Should I stay or should I go? posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  Last year I experienced many things in my first year at college, one of the biggest of these happe…

• Removing a car stereo… posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  I have a 2000 VW Beetle and am currently trying to remove a Pioneer WMA/MP3 DEH-3300UB CD Reciever.…

• Dear World: posted (2 years) ago
  I am waiting to be enough. Sincerely, Utterly Lost…

• Insomnia, Insomnia, Insomnia… posted (2 years, 10 months) ago
  How I loathe thee…..so….what is up?…

• Why? posted (3 years) ago
  Feelings congeliate in my stomach as i feel my brain turn backwards. I feel it restarting, and try…

• How do you tell someone you love them? posted (3 years, 1 month) ago
  …

• I need help on song choices? posted (3 years, 1 month) ago
  I have a very extensive library of music. I own pretty much everything or can get it. But, my ques…

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actingstar2010's Top (1) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Anyone have any knowledge on college dorm planning?
  

  The college wont, from my experience. He just wont show up. You might be assigned a new roommate, you might not. It depends on how impacted the housing at your school is.
  
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago – voted for by Airborne Warrior

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• What would you think if you walked into a man’s room and saw that he owned one of these?
  

  I would ask him, not us :P
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• I don’t know where to go from here.
  

  First of all, I think you and I both should laugh at the fact that this is the ONE post I have ever seen where the help bot should have posted, and didn’t.
  
  Second of all, How are you doing right now? How’s the weather? Name one thing that made you laugh this week.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• This is mostly for the girls, but tody i had worn a
  

  One day, you will laugh at this. There is nothing you can do now. Just live and learn, sweetie. It’ll all blow over.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• About a year ago I fell in love with this girl, and she with me.
  

  First things first.
  
  As much as this is going to suck, she is not going to leave him. And even if she did, do you really want to be on the other end of everything that is happening between you and her? I’ve been the “other person” in a few situations. It took me twice before I realized that I never wanted to be there again. Not only was it not my place, and I had no business being there, but I realized that if he would do this to her, he could do it to me.
  
  So, if she could do this to him, she could do it to you. And you don’t want to be on the receiving end of that.
  
  That being said, I don’t mean that either you, her, or her fiance are bad people at all. Good people make bad decisions. People make bad decisions. It happens. You live and learn.
  
  My suggestion is to take some time away from her, and you don’t have to take a trip to do that. Find someplace where you live that you feel safe, and content (if not happy). Make it some place she wont come looking for you. (That way, you remove all doubt that “she’d come looking for you to get you back” and if she doesn’t “she doesn’t want to be with you”.) Drive your car on top of a hill, sit on your roof, and listen to music. Call an old friend if you want.
  
  My suggestion is that you start doing things purely for your happiness. You need to focus on making yourself happy. If you ask me, she doesn’t know what she wants, and you’re going to get even more hurt in the process of her figuring things out.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• I think I came on too strong.
  

  My advice is to go in tomorrow, and act like you had a fun, busy weekend and didn’t even realize that he didn’t call. Just act like you always do. You’ll be fine.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

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