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• girls help me out here… I have always seemed to have problems with girls. posted (2 years) ago
  Every time I meet a girl that I actually really like it is always “ummm I only like you as a f…

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• I just need to vent my boyfriend is so mean to me he
  

  Oh and to Mariediven… My mother and I have attended counseling in the past, and I was getting better, but it got to the point where she couldn’t afford it anymore. I also think that I might talk to my pastor at my church and see if maybe he would be able to counsel us. Oh yeah and I don’t know if I mentioned that when I graduate this year I am going to continue with my schooling to become a Doctor of Christian Clinical Psychology. It’s kind of funny that I need counseling and I want to become one.. But hey everyone could use some sort of counseling… at least thats what I think.
  - written 2 years ago

• I just need to vent my boyfriend is so mean to me he
  

  No I still talk to my father but I have lived with my mother ever since they got divorced… He has always lived within about 15 minutes away from me. My brother use to live with him until just recently. Now my father has moved to Willows, CA. At the end of the year he is going to be moving to Louisiana. Thanks for the advice about the notepad thing. I will try that. I have also talked with my mother about this already so I know what happened. Thank you lil_bit_shi. When I say the things I do, it is more of something that I just adapted to. Half the time i don’t even know what I said until she states them later about how upset she was. I mean I am not the only one who is saying things as well.. we get into yelling matches… That is how a lot of them start, but then it’s over in like 5 min. But there are times where I put her down a lot and she just listens like it is true even though most of them are not. But I’m going to try that notepad thing and see if it helps. Thank you much.
  - written 2 years ago

• I just need to vent my boyfriend is so mean to me he
  

  Wow scary thought just came to my head… I am 17 and treat my mother like this… I have never hit her and never even thought to do a thing like that. I am just mentally abusive to hear many times through out the day… It is something that I am ashamed of and don’t know how to stop. I think it all goes back to when I was a child around 9 years old. My parents got a divorce and I remember my father saying “Son I am going away for a while and you’re going to have to be the man of the house from now on and take care of your mother.” See he was the one who did all of the discipline and my mother was the one who did the loving. Thats just how it was. I hate the way I treat her and want to stop so bad. When I say all the hurtful things I say, I tell her I was just joking as well or she really pissed me off. Those are always my excuses. I am afraid that I might end up even treating a girlfriend of mine in the future like this and I certainly do not want that. I am nice to everyone else to except to her. I mean we have our good times but then there is way more of the bad ones. Well I guess I shouldn’t of wrote all this about myself but I just had to get it out. But to answer your question I definitely think you should get out of this relationship, especially since you have left once due to his behavior and now he is back to his old ways.
  - written 2 years ago

• why should the u.s.
  

  Illegal Aliens should be something that should be taken care of more strongly by the US government. There is an estimated 12 million illegal aliens. With that many people, that is just more to provide with welfare type of services such as food stamps, cash aide, housing, and all of that stuff. I once read something where someone suggested that we should put a $1,000 bounty on each head of an illegal alien. We would get one and drag them to our local police station or whoever else handles those issues and receive $1,000. I could probably quit my job and the government would only of spent about 12 billion which I am sure is less then what they would be spending if they let them come here and supported them. Out of all the reports I have read; in every one more than 50% at least don’t want them here. So I agree with the bounty thing. I mean I don’t have a problem with them coming to our country as long as they can speak English and come legally.
  - written 2 years ago

• are any men kind in this world
  

  Ok I would have to agree that the majority of men are *** holes. But I would consider myself as an exception. Especially since that statement from Ihamd “kind men get destroyed by women” would be true for me. I have been hurt so many times, but luckily I haven’t given up and I don’t believe that after my first girlfriend I wont be kind anymore.
  - written 2 years ago

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