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Go to the e,mergency room imediately and get checked out for possible rape, do not shower, or douche, or cleanse your body, and bring all clothing, and items you had with you. i know your in shock, and prob. took a shower, but dna discovery is so powerfull, and i think they even documet it for sex offenders. file a police report asap too, and they can also offer counseling. i would also check into a reputable facility that offers hypnoses therapy, can’t hurt to try.

I commend you! after reading your profile, and breifly looking over your many, many contacts on this forum, despite your ugly pic, and all the ugly in your life, it’s a beautiful thing for you to help people with your insight. now come on, go to a barber, get a shave, and a hair cut. i dare ya to smile perty and give us a nice new picture ! i would guess you would get at least 500 to 1000 notices that day, and a ton of smiles!!!!!!!!!!!!

Holy ****, this is exactly what i was married to for 13 years, and i now have a perfect understanding of how he has chosen to end our marriage. this sick desease is definately the work of the devil. this also explains why i am completely broken down, stressed out of my mind, and in need of serious repair from the years of damage and hell.
I am blown away!
As an independent woman, and very successful entreprenuer, i now realize a huge mistake , and oversight on my part.
I put more energy into protecting my career, and used all my tough as nails traits there, completey leaving my personal vulnerability and big ole heart wide open.
Love is blind! i am a hopeless romantic, passion is my middle name.
A huge thank you for the info.
I get things now, and gunna just pick my self up, get some major repairs, and get on with my new single life, and know for sure i must do what ever it takes to be the best mom for my son, and keep him safe, and secure , from the effects his sick father may cast out. although it is clear his father adores him, and is very much a part of his life, he as you can imagine has major issues, and i wont be there 24/7 . my son loves his dad very much, and they have a blast doing fun things all the time. i will keep a watchfull eye, but not disclose this information to him unless his safety is at risk.
Ok, let’s get on with this new life!!!!!

I will reply with any help i may offer soon, off line, and on with life at the moment

Your welcome, and print out one of those adorable pictures of your lil guy, put it in a frame. and smile everytime you glance apon it. i think you should get another one, though short lived, i think it is the perfect pet for you, and will keep your loving, and caring light burning. just wait until you have a child, husband, dog, fish, bird, lizard, another dog, more fish, hamsters, chinchillas, and this crazy thing called, life to top it off!!!

Oh, so sorry daniel, my son’s hamster harry died a couple of years ago, too soon as well. it was horrible we watched him gasp his last breath. gave harry a funeral, buried him in the backyard next to the other birds, fish, lizards, turtles, and more, cried, and we still talk about him today. i have an offer for you, and i’m not kidding. i have moved from a huge home into an apartment while going through a divorce nightmare. my son’s chinchilla “mr. whiskers, and my 15 year old lhasa “bugsy” are here as well. i gave in to my son at his request for a 2nd chinchilla, and roomate for mr. whiskers. i knew it was a mistake, and tried to convince my son that mr. whiskers would not be interested in a young new mate, and would kick it’s butt! yep! so now we have a huge condo for these chinchilla’s in a small apartment, and yet the old cage for mr. whiskers to boot!!it is just too much and need to simplify right now. i need to break the news to my son first, but i would like to give you our new chinchilla “chinta”. she is absolutely adorable(he) cost $100.00, and they live 20-30 years!!! yes it’s true. they are like a large hampster with a fur coat!!!

Bag the green blood, and go for an amazing and legendary character like “braveheart” only in this century. you can put more bloody details, in events along the way, but everyone loves a hero~!!!

Way cool, i hope it’s ok, but i had the vision of beautiful rich red velvet curtains, with amazing tassles!

I was a loyal loving wife, totaly devoted, and would do anything for the man she loved for 13 years. before i go on, i want you to remember something my mother told me over, and over again, that you must live by,and never forget. “never, never, depend on a man. when you need him the most, he will most likely not be there for you” ok, i just read your post, and i get the vibe of a loving family, which is the most beautiful feeling in life, but people change after many years of marriage, they either melt together or melt apart. so, just be on your toes, and keep things in order, read and gain courage, knowledge, and self helf yourself out of this marriage. if he can’t take care of himself, how will he take care of you and your child. how could a responsible father not have health insurance or get a job that provided it. make sure you have it and for your child, if your job does not provide it, get another one that does. you could not afford any additional medical crisis. i am not a *****, but just a women with balls. someday i will post my life story, and how balls play a big part in taking control of your life. encouragement, ok. no brainer, despite your husbands unfortunate disability, and lack of responsiblity in the protection department for family. huge, huge, opportunities for him to do what ever it takes to get a home based web business going, or work via computer for someone else!!!! no excuses, barnes and noble self help/improvement books there are a **** load, can he read? don’t even fall for the poor pityfull me crap, and slave your life away, he needs to take the blame for not being insured. if things don’t change, get out!!! sorry, but i learned it all the hard way, so get out to the book store, and gain knowledge for your future, gain power, and in the end freedom and a happy life!

Dear what next,
I am so sorry for your pain and stress you must be going through, amd as a mother at the young age of 28 with 2 kids, and the burden ofmaking ends meet, and playing nurse to your disabled spouse. i absolutely disagree with alicia, you have many choices!! don’t think that money is the answer, trust me, i know. i am 47, tough as nails, have been through many tough times, financialy, emotionaly, and health wise. you are only 28 years young, and just getting started in this survival stuff, and i am going to state my opinion about what you should do, but take warning, i do not know your husband, why he is not receiving disability, and whether he has hands, a brain , and a computer. ok, take a breath, remember i am not a professinal therapist, i am just going to state my opinon. i want you to let this soak in, i will be right back with some options to explore. don’t think for a minute you are trapped and this is how the rest of your life will be! no f______ way!

Ames, thanks for your excellent words of wisdom, and getting me out of my head, and reminder to get on with what is left of my life at the moment, and what is yet to come? i love your profile, especially the quotes!! anyone would be blessed to have a freind like you! keep making a difference! so refreshing to discover a person such as yourself in this crazy thing called life! we need to talk, have you been to india? what has enabled you with such wisdom and clarity?