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LOL. first of all i think you’re very funny (hermit). second of all you should stop thinking about what the mayority of men want. a real guy will take notice of you if you just be yourself, not what others want. a lot of guys think that shy girls are atractive, so dont try and be something you’re not.

you gotta be kidding me, they say good things come to those who wait. but you shouldnt expect everything to fall on your lap either. stop reading this right now, get up from where you are, and start looking for what you want right now, there wont be a better time to do it, & good luck.

you should take the first step, how do you know if he’s really in the same situation with you?? go with what you feel like, dont be afraid of getting hurt.

just when you’re out of the movies why dont you try and find a way to talk to him but away from your friends, see what happens, you know.

i agree with countrybaby, you have nothing to offer to your husband anymore, so why stick around?? your kids will understand if they see you trully happy with someone else. i can see that your husband cares for you since he said he would try and change but its not really up to him anymore if you already made a decision

dude dont think she didnt get your email, also long distance relationships dont always work, personally i wish they would, but reality bites. hope she writes back

talk to your friend, if hes serious about her then talk it out, if hes not, make your move. Cool girls are hard to find, but worth to keep