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first off im male, but you gave me some pretty useful advice so i feel ive got to return the favour. a lot of girls i know have got those piercings and they havent had any problems with them at work or anything because you can cover them up with your hair, but i dont see any reason to think parients wouldnt like it. in my opinion, they look fit too lol thanks for your comment

i know what you mean, ive got to decide if im going to uni next year and if i do, waht im going to study or just get a job. do you have any interests or hobbies that you could make a career out of?

glass is half empty then mate? lol

winks idea is good if ur a bloke lol, or u could randomly chat to people on here or add them to msn, or read a book, or watch tv, or go running, or draw something, or sing, or dance, or drink, or go out driving, or add strangers on facebook/myspace/bebo, or look up **** on the internet, or listen to musi, or go to sleep, or cook something, frying is good, or whack things over your garden wall with a tennis racket and try to work out where they land, or make a gokart, or make a chain of dominoes, or make a cardcastle, or go to the bookies, or watch some how too… videos and youtube to try and learn something new, or try to make flashy cocktails, or watch a film, or go bowling, or write a song, or just go and chat to random people in the street and see where you end up, or think of a list of more ideas and send em back to me, have fun! safe.

i know exactly what you mean! you come on here randomly and start readin peoples comments, then before you know it you are commenting yourself and giving out advice to people. you might not give the best, most imspiring answers but your eaching out in an effort of kindness and if it helps sort your own thoughts out then it cant be a bad thing.

hey thanks for the advice i will definately look into it. to be perfectly honest i have no idea what i want to do, but i may as well try something i love doing. its actaully nice to have someone respond with a definate down to earth answer on here, rather than some spirital rubbish, thanks again and all the best

i have never been able to put into words how i feel inside, but your words have done it perfectly. i dont know who you are, what you have been through, or why you feel this way, and i know telling you there are others who feel the same is absolutely no consolation as it will simply confirm all your thoughts. i wish i could write as beautifully as you and offer some words of wisdom, but i cant. the only thing i can say is nothing in life is set in stone, at the end of the day you have to live for yourself, go with what your heart tells you to do. i really want to say something more worthwhile than these cliches, beacause i know what its like to feel trapped with only yourself for company for the rest of your lifeas the world passes you by, i too know the feeling of being completely alone although there are people around who care, no one knows me either. i have gained alot more from your words than you will from mine and i feel selfish drawing strength from your pain, i can only appologise for that, but maybe if i can get some clarity in my thoughts i will be able to offer you some more substantial help, thankyou for sharing and sorry if this doesnt really make much sense.

i am exactly the opposite to you, i am someone who hates leaving others and cannot bear to think of goodbyes. i fall in love easily and make friends quickly like you, but they are the ones who leave me behind. not intentionally, they are just following their own paths in life and i havent found mine yet. in less than a year, all my freinds are leaving for university, my best freind is going in the army and ohtre peole i truly care about are going to move on with their lives, while my life will fall apart. i need other people around me because i hate the thought of me being the only constant in my life. you should not feel bad though, life constantly changes and you are taking opportunities that present themselves when you can. it is something i wish i could do. we only live once, don’t you want to say you took every chance and lived it to the full? i knw you are not happy with the way you always move on, but let me tell you i would give anything to have the strength to do that, and not be the person who gets left behind. i dont know if this will help it was more for me to get my thoughts down really.