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• HelpBot is making a special appearance in a post near you! posted (1 week) ago
  ! Congratulations Helpbot. Its nearly your 2nd Anniversary here at help.com. Your a wonderful chap…

• What are reasons for someone wanting to study religion. posted (1 week) ago
  Regardless of belief. And not just because they want to understand society…..? I was thinkin…

• Celebration of Love. posted (1 week, 1 day) ago
  So many people on here make posts about heartbreak. But what about the love? REAL love. 1. If I sp…

• Help.com Anti Drama Club posted (2 weeks, 1 day) ago
  For all you mellow yellows out there!! Ok…so i hate drama!! Argh…i hate arguments. I h…

• You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I’ll rise. posted (2 weeks, 2 days) ago
  Here is a toast To all the strong people in the world. To those who have fought for their beliefs…

• How much should we put up with in a relationship? posted (3 weeks, 4 days) ago
  I know if anyone would come here with problems with their partner that most people will say “…

• Its my 19th Birthday on monday. posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
  (19th). And i have nothing to do. I’ve got the monday and tuesday off work. The following frid…

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♥Rαvεr♥'s Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (3 votes) ~Missed all of my really good friends~
  

  look….were all mates here. We all know each other well. We all know what we all think of the user “DaNi♠HaTes♠You”.
  And i’m sure we all know what she thinks too and so do her mates..especially after all thats happened over the past week.
  
  But we already know that…What do we all want? A war ‘over the internet’ ? COME ON! Were all better than that.
  The fact of the matter is a few of us here would like to see more done about the situation. But by being bitter and sarcastic it isn’t going to help anyone. It will just make things worse.
  
  b>So please, i ask Dani not to write on the posts made by lilbit please to avoid argument. But i also ask everyone else to stop talking about her too on lilbits posts. Its not helping the situation. I know were angry but logically this isn’t the way to solve the problem. This post was made specifically about the positives and as a little welcome back to Shie and for her friends to show their support. /b>
  
  ******** and fighting isn’t going to solve any problems. Lilbit is already taking proper steps to sort things out. If anyone wants to show their support then why not shout or email her and ask what you can do? That way constructive measures can be put in place to make help.com more friendly.
  
  Before anyone thinks i’m sticking up for Dani, I’m not. I’m sticking up for sanity here! Lilbit is my best friend, we are really close. And i am on her side regardless of who its against because i have that kind of loyalty in my friendships. Stick together no matter what. So please just understand where i’m commming from!
  
  I don’t know if you’ve heard but lilbits had some bad news from the doctors. Lets help her out and make her escape to help.com a plesant one!
  
  Love and peace xxx
  
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago – voted for by Puck You, Ditzy, nikko

• (3 votes) what do you guys know about “pro-ana”?
  

  There is nothing beautiful about someone with anorexia. They look ill, vile,they get loss of menstrual periods, lack of energy and weakness, feeling cold all the time, dry, yellowish skin, constipation and abdominal pain , restlessness and insomnia, dizziness, fainting, and headaches, growth of fine hair all over the body and face.
  
  Yeah. Real nice.
  
  Oh and i forgot to mention.
  They cant think straight, sad, moody, irritable, bad memory, fainting, changes in brain chemistry.
  Your hair goes thin and brittle. Hair is one of the most noticed things on a person, its something you personalise and it represents someone. If you have nice hair the person automatically looks healthier and nicer.
  theres the low blood pressure as well, heart palpitations, slow heart rate. And if your lucky you get heart failure ;)
  
  There’s the obvious anemia problems too. Along with constant sprains, fractures and breaks because of the brittle bones. Swollen joints, weak muscles and osteoporosis.
  
  And if that’s not attractive enough for you why don’t i throw in a little low potassium magnesium and sodium, a few kidney stones and kidney failure. constipation and bloating!!
  
  
  
  So what do you want me to do? Congratulate you for being this self inflicted idiot?
  
  I understand people have problems. But to think that anorexia is beautiful is completely and utterly ludicrous.
  
  I am proud to say that i am a healthy weight. And am far more beautiful because i don’t look like a corpse!!!
  
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago – voted for by cattail, Queen of Lost Vampyr, nikko

• (3 votes) Why are people so mean here?
  

  Well i looked at your post, i don’t have time to read all the replies…
  
  but…
  
  There are a few people on this site who are down right mean and nasty and have no respect for others. They are here to cause trouble, mock…and they ‘get off’ on arguing with people. Makes them feel powerful.
  
  If someones being mean. And you think they are genuinely in the wrong, then report them. Its really easy to do. That way the bad guys get booted and the good ones stick around and give advice. But if you don’t like someones advice or don’t want to take it, that doesn’t make them mean, just because they are being truthful.
  
  There is a fine line between being honest and being mean, so you need to figure out which is which and don’t take it all personally. No one on this site actually knows you, so disregard the rude comments because at the end of the day there basing there judgements on what…3/4 comments that you have made? There the ones who look foolish. Not you.
  
  As for your daughter. I think, you shouldn’t assume she is going to be ‘brainless’ because of you and her dad. Don’t see it that way…you need to focus on her upbringing. You don’t need brains to be a parent. You need love! And if you love your daughter and want to do whats right, then her outcome will be the best possible. The best thing you can do for your daughter is be really really supportive and accepting of her and proud of her achievements, whatever they are. If they were her personal best, then you have succeeded.
  
  You could introduce her to different things, like clubs or ‘lessons’ or even just a playgroup, i will teach her important social skills so that when she goes to school when she is older, she can get right into learning, because being around all the kids wont be a shock if she is used to it.
  
  Give me a shout anytime you want to talk or chat or if you feel down. I’m here for you.
  
  I think your a good person for wanting to help your kid. You have good intentions for your daughter. You should be proud of yourself.
  
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Max*taking a nap*, PersonalPandaParty, nikko

• (3 votes) ok so..i’m kind of with this girl whose dad is an abusive alcoholic.
  

  I have a dad who is an alcoholic. I know what your gf is going through, and what she has to live through.
  
  What she needs to understand is there is no reasoning with an alcoholic. No amount of love can conquer the addiction and need for the booze.
  
  Right now you have made the best decision. To move out.
  
  Maybe your gf should get a job too? You can get out and into your own place a lot sooner.
  
  You are a great guy for being so supportive. I really mean this, you are one in a million. Don’t let any amount of crap get to you and change that. Because its a rare thing to find nowadays.
  
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Settism, box-of-rain

• (3 votes) I haven’t eaten in a week
  

  hey, the throwing up is a reaction to the fact that you went so long without food.
  
  please, drink water. 2/3sips every 5mins. literally.
  
  do this for about 2hours.
  
  then have a sip of some pure juice, apple or orange is best.
  
  do this for an hour. this will help build up your vitamin C.
  
  then you could try having soup, or some plain pasta. have a tiny bit and have something you dont mind warming up and eating. because you have to take it slow.
  
  then if you can have some thing like toast.
  
  stay away from butter, cheese, milk, and things with sugar in.
  
  but i would urge you to see your doctor about this. especially if it doesnt get better after like 24hours.
  
  - written 7 months ago – voted for by sherryn, ♥Rαvεr♥, PersonalPandaParty, ɐʇɐɯɹǝɟ.Suc

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• The Night I Attempted Suicide.
  

  *bump* = just to get the post hits/views up…its like a way of saying something thats nothing…if that makes sense lol?
  - written 22 hours, 58 minutes ago

• The Night I Attempted Suicide.
  

  *BUMP*
  
  /me fondles knee!! hehe.
  - written 23 hours, 2 minutes ago

• i am physically disable who is always in wheelchair
  

  tip: sell the computer then! you cant afford to eat…yet your on the internet?
  
  I do feel sorry for you but this just seems a bit false to me.
  - written 1 day ago

• GIRLS ONLY !
  

  DONT wear tight jeans. Wear baggy jeans..and a loosish top but not baggy. That usually works well.
  - written 1 day ago

• what is the diffents between christian and catholic?
  

  [quote jessic_spec]i am ask that cuz my sister is protestant and i think the guy that she is married to is catholic[/quote]
  
  There are united reformed churches too. They accept multi-religous marriages regardless. (usually)
  - written 1 day ago

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