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• Read if you want. posted (1 week) ago
  Im heartbroken and numb from the pain that I feel right now. For anyone who has ever gone this the…

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  Does anyone know of any sites that you can go to and watch old movies such as the movie Beaches? It…

• LOVE? posted (3 weeks, 4 days) ago
  ?? Why do we have to fall in love with someone that we know we will never be able to get?? You just…

• Put me in your prayers? posted (1 month) ago
  I am currently in a school that I cant function in. There are just way too many rules for a higsch…

• Does anyone? posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  ? Does anyone ever feel used sometimes??…

• There are many people that deserve a thankyou from me posted (3 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Many people on this site have helped me out a lot. People such as sansceriph and undeveloped. There…

• Does anyone know of any good rock songs that are about friendship? posted (4 months, 1 week) ago
  It can be any type of rock. It just needs to be about friendship. I’m thinking about making …

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• Can any one tell me how it is you find your best firned or any help on finding one ?
  

  A bestfriend doesnt really come to you, you have to find one. I had a bestfriend for six years and she betrayed so I said bye to her. I havent heard from her in over five years now. The point is you will know if that person is your bestfriemd yall will have maybe the same things in common. You have to work really hard talk to some more people and find things that you have in common with them. Who knows you could find that person. You could find someone like I did my current bff. I met her in gym class she was the quietist one there I forced her to talk to me becaus eI hated for her to be alone.Now six years later we are so close and we still talk about when we met. Now I am like a sister more than a bff Im pratically family to everyone in her family. My point is you have to make the effort and keep trying. So start looking around talk to people you have never talked to. Maybe just maybe yall will become bff’s.
  - written 4 days, 11 hours ago

• I’m not going into detail but I need help
  

  I think you should go for it. If he is trustworthy and reliable when you need him then tell him. Telling someone even a small worry or problem helps. Dont make the mistake and think that you can hide it from some of your friends. Trust me if they are good friends then they know whats going on. They are just waiting for you to come to them and tell them. He probably knows that something is wrong but is just waiting. Go to him and tell him before it gets bad. It will be hard but just let it out tell him that you really need to talk to him and make sure that yall are alone and just relax and let it out. Hang in there! If you need to talk then you can post a shout to me if you want.
  - written 4 days, 16 hours ago

• I try my hardest to make my friends happy and they don’t even try to return the favour.
  

  If they are treating you like this then they arent tru friends at all. True friends will stick by you and they will have your back no matter what. They will help you when you are upset or stressed or worried even if they arent happy with you. They will notice when somethings wrong by just looking into your eyes. They wont push you away when you need help the most and they wont stab you in the back. If they are doing all those things then I say you tell them goodbye. They dont deserve your friendship anymore, no one deserves to be treated like that. So if I were you then I would start now. Tell them that you are through messing around and just walk away. If they move on then you werent meant to be friends. Start finding new friends to hang out with,when they see how much fun you are having with your new friends then maybe they will realize what they missed out on while they were treating you like crap. Trust me if you do this they will regret loosing you because Im sure you are a great person. Im sorry that you are having to go through this it hurts I know it does. I have been through this a lot and it was hard but I got revenge by leaving them and they came crawling back to me but I knew that they wouldnt change. Hang in there and I know you will be ok! If you need to talk then you can post a shout to me if you want.
  - written 4 days, 16 hours ago

• frienship trust
  

  I dont blame you for getting mad. Sometimes we all do that, we tell a couple of our friends that are close to us something and forget to tell the other person. If it was important then yeah you should of known earlier than a month later. I can understand how you feel this happens to me all the time. I just started checking in with everybody every once in a while and they told me stuff that I needed to know. That may be what you have to do. But that’s just my advice. As for not talking in over three months that kind of crazy. You should start up a conversation with them instead of waiting around for them to call. They might think that you hate them or something crazy like that. So just try to talk to them just start out slow. Sorry if I didn’t help you out but I really feel that if ya’ll are that close then you should keep in contact and not fight over something silly. Believe me I know it may not seem dumb to you right now but it might be. I have been through so many fights with my close friends and some have been serious and others haven’t. It’s better to keep contact with them rather just letting them go. Please let me know if this helps you out any. Hang in there and Im sure that everything will work out! Post a shout to me if you ever want to talk.
  - written 4 days, 16 hours ago

• Read if you want.
  

  I like your icon on here it’s pretty cool!
  
  [quote New View]Thank you.[/quote]
  - written 1 week ago

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