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hey. Listen I LOVE the poem….. But I think you need to let it rock. Like you said she ****** things up….. Let her deal with that now but please pick your head up about it. The world spins madly on……. Life goes on let it be. Be with some friends… The most important people you meet will be the ones you call brothers. Get out- enjoy yourself and others company. What happened, happened- and like you said she’s ugly inside. Why would you waste your breath on that??? Dude life is tough. But that’s why you wear a helmet and carry on. You need to party…. Relax……. Be yourself without this chick in the way. You only live once, and as sweet as thoose cliche love songs are there are better things to waste your time on. And time IS borrowed- you’re only a teen once so don’t get caught up in something that doesn’t really mean **** in the long run. You wanna stop focusing on this girl???? Then you need to let it be. Let it rock, move along, and take some close friends along with you. If its one thing I’ve learned its that its the friends that make life worth living. No eternal beauty or anything like it. You want beauty? Go be with your family…. Be with your brothers and thoose people that will fill thoose gaps in your life. At this age, love is something triggered by hormones and spun around lyrics of washed up boy bands. I know you’ve heard it man but LET IT BE. Take it easy bro and get back into your life…… Cause you’ve been missing too dam much of it. —————– take it easy and keep me posted———– :-p love always

Lmao to sum it up I don’t think you should give it to her……. Its fighting fire with fire and its over and done. What would you acomplish by sending it? More tears? Nah rocko you cared about this girl don’t waste more time. Move along……. Its the best advice I can give.

****! I just wrote a whole dam response…….

wow great advice there.

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ahahaha word up erik its great ;-) now how do you like dem apples??

hey thanks…. Yah I guess you could call me a writer. :) lmao and yes anything you need advice for just shoot.

rocko….
first of all, cutting yourself can be as much of a reminder as a curse. The scars will never fade, but as long as your out of it, it helps you to think back at where you were and where you should be in your life and all other aspects. You should be proud youve come this far. As far as your childhood past, i have soemthing to share. When i was little, my friend would come over and we’d pretend to be lesbians. Yah thing was, when she started taking my clothes off and kissing me, i dont think you can call that anything else but NOT PRETENDING. I was bi for a while until i grew out of it i guess. What i NOW realize is that i was never really gay or bi… i was experimenting which is a very normal path in anyones life. It is extreamly akward though, to remmeber that, expecially since the girl attends my high school. It has always remained a secret and it plagued me for a long time.

But what you have to realize is that masterbation is just another form of that experimentaion. Feel free to explore yourself, i garantee you half your friends are just as into it as you. I have no shame in admiting that i too, like everyone else on the plannet, do it. Just dont worry about it and as long as your comfortable, thats all that matters my love.

BEst of luck in your troubles, but just remember that your life is your own, never let anyone tell you otherwise. Dont be ashamed of who you are its something i admire in you.

Take care…
Julia

hahaha. thanks man but that was just a little fun. ill let you know though

im so sorry. but in a way im not- you should be enjoying your life and doing more than sitting home alone and worrying. play sports… take time for friends… learn how to play the guitar… go work out DO SOMETHING!!!! Your life is what you make it… sort yourself out and girls will natrually fall into place. just stay strong and focus on yourself for a while. your wasting feelings and energy on someone who most obviously doesnt want to put the same effort back. i hate to see you so destressed…. all i want for you is happiness. what first struck me about you was how confident and kind and well rounded you were. You seemed really optimistic on life and i really did enjoy talking to you. Just dont let me down….

Im counting on you to make the right decisions.

haha. i love all kinds of music, mainly rock and alternative punk stuff. as far as that goes, All american rejects, fall out boy, mcr, ashley parker angel…. the list goes on. i love the Doors though, and ultimatley,
beatles:)

cute naska:)

hey.
Listen… sometimes things just don’t work out. Sometimes things die and there is really, honstley, very little anyone can do about it. I was in the same situation as you a couple of months ago… and i know whats its like to have family get involved. Its cruel and unusual punishment but they only want whats best for you. It takes alot to see that, and even more to understand what they are to you. Theier whole life is dedicated to your protection and well-being. At first, thier constant shadow is a nusiance. But then again, no matter what they are and who they like, they will always be your family. SHe has some kind of wiked hold on you that makes me uneasy. It doesnt strike me as love though- and for anything but that kind of dependence can be dangerous. (expecially if shes not returning the favor.)
If your noticing the negetive then it might mean nothing but she simply has them. Thats certinally not enough to turn you away on its own… but if shes treating you like this just think of what your sacrificing for someone who, truth be told, probably doesnt feal the same way. SHes being immature and stubborn… two qualities i try and seperate myself from. You do what you have to do though- advice is good but you have to know for yourself what you want and whats best for YOU. Thats not being selfish- thats called protecting yourself, and you just might thank me in the end.
Think about the situation…
the decision rests in your hands and no one elses. JUst remember you need to think of yourself and your needs-> even if she may not be the best for them after all.
It might be hard to say goodbye… mbut think how much harder it would be to try and stay together.

kissing is intimidating if your not ready. or if your not in the mood. when it really gets fun is when you BOTH want it…
need i say more?
You could innocently bring up the factor of “you know i havent really hooked up with anyone.” :) See how his eyes widen and then you could always wink and ask if he’d like to be the first.
of course that can go horribly wrong, in which case i just suggest lettin him make the first move. and when he does….
yup. Close your eyes and go!
Dont worry about anything guys usually take the lead… over time you learn how the mouth works and pretty soon you’ll be taking charge.
My best advice is to not be embarrased to ask for it. And if you are, let his hormones come to you.
:) Just realax my friend….
and remember to have fun.

people can only know themselves what’s best…
but in the eyes of the law it’s ILLEGAL.
if and when anything happens, sexual related or not, a HUG or any physical contact is considered against the law and satchitory rape. she has to be at least 13 to give consent and 17 if he’s over 18. I hope you give her not only the advice she deserves, but stop anything before they both end up in trouble. my Bf was 16 when i was 13 and i almost cost him his licsnce. Just think about what she’s doing and let her know head on. Think of it this way…
shed rather hear it from you then parents and police later.